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That is correct, although that's not to say I haven't had 3somes at parties (either the Mrs and another woman, or just 2 other women).

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I believe Mr VABeach is suggesting the initial connection occur at clubs or parties. Once rapport develops then you can plan your more private threesome.

Though I don't doubt Mr VA enjoys threesomes and moresomes at clubs & parties... ;-)

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Twonluv69, Mrs. Fun here. I'm really not concerned about competition because it's for my pleasure too. I really do not like the "look at me" or the "I need attention" type of woman because a selfish woman wouldn't jive with me. Been there done that. I have read the posts and appreciate all the input. The majority, approx. 80%, say it is difficult if not impossible. I've appreciated all the suggestions, experiences and what people have had to say. As far as meeting at parties, Mr. would rather have the experience (again) in a less "active" environment. So that leaves escorts (which in our area aren't really an option) and me chasing every opportunity Mr. thinks or sees as there.

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Hello Twonluv69. In your title sentence it says, "It's not the destination, but the Journey that counts". That is true in so many ways, BUT not true when a couple is trying court a woman for a long term love affair. It's very difficult if not impossible for a woman to date a couple long term because she believes it is a DEAD -END road, regardless of how much adventure she is having with the couple. Even though everyone knows that 80% of all relationships bust up, this point is of no consequence. There must be the allure of the "perfect forever romance" (Destination) for someone to attempt the journey. Me and Janet have spent many days and hours thinking about this. What is the destination?? Forever into eternity? Perhaps. It is for me and her, but our long - time (5 years) part-time girlfriend, it all comes down to this. And we all love each other and it's well balanced. We only play when all 3 are together for she lives a couple hours away, regardless. It's and Extremely rare out of probably 250 experiences with women in one form or another, this is only one we have loved. For Dawn, when she looks up in the dictionary for the word "good relationship" she see our photo beside it. It came down to this ......."If I keep dating you all, then I am never gonna have what you two have." So no destination means sometimes "dead end road" . Wish this was not the case. This relationship with this girl has brought much wisdom and enlightenment to all of us, but has caused heart ache as well. Travis

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On SLS? Very difficult.

At parties or clubs? Piece of cake.

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well, here's the thing... I think we can all agree that the lifestyle is "Female-centric". Everything revolves around the greeting, meeting & pleasuring of the ladies and I'm sure the fellas are just fine with that. However, having said that women are far more shrewd & discerning in choosing a partner, much less a female partner. What men view as a perfectly good opportunity for a menage-a-trois women MAY view as a competition that they're just not in the mood for (her breasts are bigger than mine, will she do something I don't, "the look at me attitude", I don't like her hair, etc.) ;-) Mrs. Twonluv69 is very eager for her first FMF encounter as well, but majority of the women that she finds attractive are the Soccer Moms we see every weekend, or work at the mall, bank, etc.

Speaking of which (RacerX9), we would recommend Shoe stores... the last time we went to DSW (Designer Shoe Warehouse) I thought we were in some parallel universe! Ladies are always striking up conversations there (Do these look good? Where are you wearing those to?)

Favorite_Color, very insightful input... you guys know from whence you speak!

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I Mr Fun agree how tough it is just reading all the replys we gotton. I agree with the last statement you have to make it known. People just can't guess your intentions. Maybe a escort would be much easier. Mrs Fun is very sexy and a recent visit to a "play store" the Female employee was strongly hitting on her but when you look for the negative in it then it becomes impossible.

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To find a single woman, they you the female must become very aggressive as far introducing yourself to other women and telling them what you are into and want. You must advertise A LOT! Really how old does a person have to be until they just don't care what others think? Go to WINERIES, this is where women hang out. A lot of them. All of them. No secret there. Or just hire an escort (prostitute).

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we have been in the lifestyle for a long time and finding a woman is very hard. So hard that we pretty much gave up on the idea and started doing other fun things. Trust us there are other things to do besides mfm that are fun.

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Chuck Norris likes his meat so rare, he only eats Unicorn! LOL

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