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TOPIC: Mrs question for Women How hard is it really to find a woman for MFF
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I guess I'm a bit puzzled by Nikki. She's claiming that the MFF is more for her than him, yet is straight. She then goes on to claim that she doesn't mind being bi curious to get this to fulfilled.

Holly, VA I find it odd that you didn't touch on this, but encouraged her to open their profile to couples instead.

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Welcome to the Forums Nikki!

I was able to view your profile but I agree with Mr VA, you are eliminating most of your options for play partners by only being available to single lady profiles.

As a single lady, I'd wonder why you wanted me to come and have sex with your husband with you barely involved. Your profile also makes me think y'all want this to be a one (or perhaps two) time thing. To me, you're essentially looking for someone to come serve his needs and that makes me inclined to suggest you hire a prostitute.

Y'all are looking for the rarest item in the Lifestyle and I don't think your current approach will be effective. I suggest you: (1) Open your profile to couples; (2) Go to the Profile Review thread and ask for feedback on improving your profile; (3) Read through the existing threads in this forum to get insight on threesomes and finding a woman to join you; (4) Start attending local clubs and parties.

Good luck!

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Welcome to the forums, nikkilkswatching!

By blocking couples, you're eliminating about 90% of the women on SLS, and probably about 95% of the "real" ones.

Most of our FMF threesomes have been with female halves of couples, rather than "true" single females.

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Hi, were wanting to try this mff encounter for me, more than my husband and It is very hard!! I can't seem to find a decently attractive female who will just come bang my husband and go...lol. I even don't mind being bi curious to join in where ever she wants, but still no luck. I feel a bit odd asking another woman to do this, but he seems to think I'd get better responses and I him. So which is it??? Better for me to approch her or for him???

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Drunkeness sucks. Drunk people are not the norm at our parties. I would never fuck a drunk girl.

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the problem we found with parties is that most get way to drunk to do anything weather it be there or somewhere else. We have been to many parties in different locations and its all been the same. I think we would rather do without than have to put up with a drunk. I'm sure someone on here will say this never happens at parties they attend and we say good for you because there isn't anything worse than a drunk person/persons spoiling the fun.

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That is correct, although that's not to say I haven't had 3somes at parties (either the Mrs and another woman, or just 2 other women).

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I believe Mr VABeach is suggesting the initial connection occur at clubs or parties. Once rapport develops then you can plan your more private threesome.

Though I don't doubt Mr VA enjoys threesomes and moresomes at clubs & parties... ;-)

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Twonluv69, Mrs. Fun here. I'm really not concerned about competition because it's for my pleasure too. I really do not like the "look at me" or the "I need attention" type of woman because a selfish woman wouldn't jive with me. Been there done that. I have read the posts and appreciate all the input. The majority, approx. 80%, say it is difficult if not impossible. I've appreciated all the suggestions, experiences and what people have had to say. As far as meeting at parties, Mr. would rather have the experience (again) in a less "active" environment. So that leaves escorts (which in our area aren't really an option) and me chasing every opportunity Mr. thinks or sees as there.

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Hello Twonluv69. In your title sentence it says, "It's not the destination, but the Journey that counts". That is true in so many ways, BUT not true when a couple is trying court a woman for a long term love affair. It's very difficult if not impossible for a woman to date a couple long term because she believes it is a DEAD -END road, regardless of how much adventure she is having with the couple. Even though everyone knows that 80% of all relationships bust up, this point is of no consequence. There must be the allure of the "perfect forever romance" (Destination) for someone to attempt the journey. Me and Janet have spent many days and hours thinking about this. What is the destination?? Forever into eternity? Perhaps. It is for me and her, but our long - time (5 years) part-time girlfriend, it all comes down to this. And we all love each other and it's well balanced. We only play when all 3 are together for she lives a couple hours away, regardless. It's and Extremely rare out of probably 250 experiences with women in one form or another, this is only one we have loved. For Dawn, when she looks up in the dictionary for the word "good relationship" she see our photo beside it. It came down to this ......."If I keep dating you all, then I am never gonna have what you two have." So no destination means sometimes "dead end road" . Wish this was not the case. This relationship with this girl has brought much wisdom and enlightenment to all of us, but has caused heart ache as well. Travis

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