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TOPIC: Mrs question for Women How hard is it really to find a woman for MFF

Created by: Funcouplefor2 Original Starting post for this thread:
Me and the Mr have a little debate about how difficult it really is to find a Female for MFF play (he thinks if I try hard enough it should be simple). Let's not use the word "Single" to simplify it. First things first. Honestly, a male going out and asking women to join him and his wife usually doesn't go over well or is at the least very odd to explain (not saying it hasn't worked for someone somewhere). My question is where and how (lets leave parties out of it for the time being) have you approached a female to join in a MFF. We live in a very small town with a conservative population where many people know us or know other people we know, so just walking up to someone and openly flirting is really not an option. I know I am attractive but not a "need all the attention to feel good about myself" type, very friendly & outgoing. But I do worry about the back lash since we are business owners and have younger kids in school, and could be recognized by anyone at any time. His opinion is going out and making more friends (the majority of our friends are male because of the work environment we have). After a few glasses of wine start dropping hints . I don't consider myself an "average" woman as many women I have met are very selfish and only care about what they want or are critical of others. I chose to avoid large circles of women friends because of the drama and don't normally do the "girls night out" thing. I think of others before I ever think of myself or it's all about their self image "the look at me attitude" which is a turn off for me. So what are my options? Am I just limiting myself this way and what suggestions would WOMEN have that have had success approaching women outside of a party enviroment? Please answers from WOMEN .

Created by: Funcouplefor2
Original Starting post for this thread:

Me and the Mr have a little debate about how difficult it really is to find a Female for MFF play (he thinks if I try hard enough it should be simple). Let's not use the word "Single" to simplify it. First things first. Honestly, a male going out and asking women to join him and his wife usually doesn't go over well or is at the least very odd to explain (not saying it hasn't worked for someone somewhere). My question is where and how (lets leave parties out of it for the time being) have you approached a female to join in a MFF. We live in a very small town with a conservative population where many people know us or know other people we know, so just walking up to someone and openly flirting is really not an option.  I know I am attractive but not a "need all the attention to feel good about myself" type, very friendly & outgoing.  But I do worry about the back lash since we are business owners and have younger kids in school, and could be recognized by anyone at any time. His opinion is going out and making more friends (the majority of our friends are male because of the work environment we have). After a few glasses of wine start dropping hints . I don't consider myself an "average" woman as many women I have met are very selfish and only care about what they want or are critical of others. I chose to avoid large circles of women friends because of the drama and don't normally do the "girls night out" thing. I think of others before I ever think of myself or it's all about their self image "the look at me attitude" which is a turn off for me. So what are my options?  Am I just limiting myself this way and what suggestions would WOMEN have that have had success approaching women outside of a party enviroment? Please answers from WOMEN .

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User Details are only visible to members.	Toledo, Yes, both of us have been in Sales for many years and our Major in college was Marketing.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs. SAV , That was down right painful!! I ain't no clown. "Showmen", now I liked that. We may just have to turn from evil ways. Don't give up on us.
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