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The following are some (perhaps) entertaining exchanges that I have on a ongoing basis with one of the 12 couples that Janet and I are advising.

They say crazy is what makes the sex so good.

One of my all time favorite quotes: "I gotta be crazy to do this! Yeah, but are you CRAZY ENOUGH??" Meaning: You gotta have lots of *Courage* to do it Right!! (Point Break -movie)

FWD: Went to Annies. Fun large group of 15 older women. They took turns giving us 8 hours of quality dance lessons and a janet and travis pro photo shoot. Pretty silly I guess but entertaining for the appreciative masses. Thought for sure we were gonna get laid, but...... Was trying to politely explain to a few of the women what we do......... I finally just busted out that we are Swingers! Immediately they said they were not swingers but of those 3 women they had been fucked by 6 guys between them. 1 different guy per girl the previous 2 nights. Me and janet just looked at each other shooked our heads and walked back to the dance floor.

Well how did it go G****? Hey! It didn't. Mother Nature interfered. It puts her in a foul mood, makes her insecure and she was riding my ass for enjoying this too much. I said fuck it and called it off. I'm not participating until she makes up her mind. I hate the on again off again bullshit. We are big boys and girls and should b e able to deal with it. Oh well.

The "swinger" tag conjures up such a negative image to a lot of people. C***** and I have tried to come up with something else. Don't like calling it "the lifestyle" either. People are so hung up about sex. Years and years of the church saying it's dirty, but almost everyone fucks. I'm amazed at how many p eople are into swinging. Figure there are twice as many who want to, but don't have the nerve. There is a shortage of attractive people though. Or we're looking in the wrong places. :)

Shit man , dancing is quickest path to the bedroom, I say!

We always like going to places where there is a wider selection to choose from. For us the strickly couple on couple thing would involve too much potential negative downside. Swing parties or of course Annies is so good for us because we can still have a good time regardless.

We're still finding what works for us. So far not much.

It takes a while to be able to shoot par golf. It takes all the skills we have to just to compete with people who are in "the meat market" constantly due to it being their full time jobs to be there. Bar tender, entertainer, wait staff, night club manager / owner. Customers are known as pure amateurs and only the best get invited to the after type parties. Me and janet used to hang out with lots of strippers for several years on their days off. Fun and crazy times but we were not into drugs at all soooo we eventually went are own way. Simply did not need the stripper crutch any more. You wanna be cool at the beach? Be a lifeguard. Hah we are too old for that. Shit my dad's buddy who is 80 years old has a bullshit job of delivering flowers and gets laid on a regular basis. He gets to know every girl in the neighborhood who is single and starting to court again. That fucker benefits off of some schmuck who has paid for the damn flowers! Gotta have an angle!!

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We've been in many FMF, where even though both of us were bi, we weren't into each other, so each of us was focused on him/hubby. And as SB pointed out, being comfortable with each other allowed the encounter to be that much more intense.

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Why does a woman have to be bi to participate in a FMF?

Typically, a man doesn't have to be bi to participate in a MFM.

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hard very hard i have been looking an havent found i guess i will give up and maybe find a couple but was really just wanting a woman since i have a male friend already :( i just really wanna watch my man with another woman lol

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Frankly, I am happy to hear that it is extremely difficult to get women to participate in MFF. I've experienced it myself when I attempted to get another female to get together with me and a bf and he had no success either. I was able to make it happen once. A lot of single women either want the man or woman for herself. They are not big on sharing. Back in the day, I would never have shared my partner either. Another thing. A lot of the jerks who come on this site thinks its a free for all for pussy, etc. and won't even support the site by becoming a paid member and think the women are sluts. I had such an experience this week with one calling me a slut. Was I bothered? Not in the least. I blocked his dumb ass. Some of us act like this LS is the "norm." It's not!

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Nic,

One has to wonder, mental/physical midget has been harping on how wonderfully successful his club is. Why is he looking to freeload, if one is running a successful business, logic dictates that people get paid for their labor, no?

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I think this forum is getting way off track.

We have found it very hard to find ladies to join us in fact in the past 5 years it has never happened. We try to be respectful, kind and always willing to do a little extra to make her comfortable. We are at a lose ourselves what we can do.

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Nic...you are absolutely correct There are many clubs who do not welcome single men, in our case we did the math. The number of couples and single ladies who enjoy single gentlemen, vs the number who don't. We then created a wrist band system to indicate which ladies would welcome the advances of the single gentlemen and which would not....and it all works out well for everyone

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I host house parties and never expect my guests, singles or couples to "lend a hand" to earn an invitation.

Clubs generally cater to couples and restrict the number of single males in an effort to keep some balance so couples don't feel overwhelmed. If you are suggesting they limit the number of guys because single males are rude and obnoxious, you are mistaken. If that were the case, clubs would ban males altogether. Most clubs have some couple's only nights and some where they invite single males for couples who enjoy adding another guy. That is a business decision based on catering to the desires of their customers.

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Toledo...Thank you, we have worked our asses off to become in most ways, the 1# club in the Chicago area, and part of that has been our stubborn insistence that indeed people of all backgrounds, sizes and ages can all party and enjoy each other I was referring to Nic's "disgusting people" comment and his attitude regarding the lifestyle in general. My dime a dozen comment simply referrers to the fact that I generally have more single guys who want in than I can accommodate, so when decisions have to me made on who gets in and who doesn't, comments like calling people disgusting, and disregarding the possibility manning up and offering a hand to get to the top of the list, would not help his case....That's all I'm saying

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