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TOPIC: Mrs question for Women How hard is it really to find a woman for MFF

Created by: Funcouplefor2 Original Starting post for this thread:
Me and the Mr have a little debate about how difficult it really is to find a Female for MFF play (he thinks if I try hard enough it should be simple). Let's not use the word "Single" to simplify it. First things first. Honestly, a male going out and asking women to join him and his wife usually doesn't go over well or is at the least very odd to explain (not saying it hasn't worked for someone somewhere). My question is where and how (lets leave parties out of it for the time being) have you approached a female to join in a MFF. We live in a very small town with a conservative population where many people know us or know other people we know, so just walking up to someone and openly flirting is really not an option. I know I am attractive but not a "need all the attention to feel good about myself" type, very friendly & outgoing. But I do worry about the back lash since we are business owners and have younger kids in school, and could be recognized by anyone at any time. His opinion is going out and making more friends (the majority of our friends are male because of the work environment we have). After a few glasses of wine start dropping hints . I don't consider myself an "average" woman as many women I have met are very selfish and only care about what they want or are critical of others. I chose to avoid large circles of women friends because of the drama and don't normally do the "girls night out" thing. I think of others before I ever think of myself or it's all about their self image "the look at me attitude" which is a turn off for me. So what are my options? Am I just limiting myself this way and what suggestions would WOMEN have that have had success approaching women outside of a party enviroment? Please answers from WOMEN .

Created by: Funcouplefor2
Original Starting post for this thread:

Me and the Mr have a little debate about how difficult it really is to find a Female for MFF play (he thinks if I try hard enough it should be simple). Let's not use the word "Single" to simplify it. First things first. Honestly, a male going out and asking women to join him and his wife usually doesn't go over well or is at the least very odd to explain (not saying it hasn't worked for someone somewhere). My question is where and how (lets leave parties out of it for the time being) have you approached a female to join in a MFF. We live in a very small town with a conservative population where many people know us or know other people we know, so just walking up to someone and openly flirting is really not an option.  I know I am attractive but not a "need all the attention to feel good about myself" type, very friendly & outgoing.  But I do worry about the back lash since we are business owners and have younger kids in school, and could be recognized by anyone at any time. His opinion is going out and making more friends (the majority of our friends are male because of the work environment we have). After a few glasses of wine start dropping hints . I don't consider myself an "average" woman as many women I have met are very selfish and only care about what they want or are critical of others. I chose to avoid large circles of women friends because of the drama and don't normally do the "girls night out" thing. I think of others before I ever think of myself or it's all about their self image "the look at me attitude" which is a turn off for me. So what are my options?  Am I just limiting myself this way and what suggestions would WOMEN have that have had success approaching women outside of a party enviroment? Please answers from WOMEN .

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User Details are only visible to members.	Yea. I thought I wanted to get in better shape, but I think that I am happy the way I am now.
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User Details are only visible to members.	It's like being smart. If you need to tell people you're all that, you're not.
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User Details are only visible to members.	That is why I love being not that good looking; I do not intimidate anyone, and I usually get laid.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I chortle at Peghey's snortle. And yes I know snortle is not a word. Someone must have upgraded their bandwidth to make it fat enough for their ego to traverse it.
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User Details are only visible to members.	CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS TEXT BELOW Ha! People are easily intimidated. You know you can't close every deal even though you know you have what they want and need. Then all of a sudden you'll have them lined up. Ha! We always tell ourselves to keep hanging in there and the great "Law of Averages" will work in our favor eventually. Especially, if you grow in wisdom! Which is what we try to do after each time in the "Sexual Arena" . Study on what you did well and what you can do to improve. Ponder on what we will say and do next time! We feel that striving to become excellent at Social Dynamics is a time worthy pursuit, a higher calling than just sex. Hah, yeah I know, complete bullshit, but it sounds nice! The "Sexual Arena is the Do Jo of Enlightenment! I do hope to see y'all in action sometime. I have this image in my mind and can't wait to see it for real! Dude, me and and Janet have shared a million laughs together. We wish y'all the best of luck!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Wow. Just wow. Head thump.
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User Details are only visible to members.	CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS TEXT BELOW At least some Frustration is felt everywhere. We spent 8 solid hours at Annies delivering our absolute finest bullshit to a group of about 15 women. Had a good time and provided them a blast. Yes, we enjoy it, but by the end of the night we want an intimate connection with a girl as well, fuck we feel that we have earned it!! Don't we all. Although we did get some great dance lessons, which is never a waste of time. Of course our "Princess of Pain" (long time off - on GF) was there and looking crazy sexy! But probably dressed that way for someone else, hah. I told Janet that she is probably just trying to compete with you (janet) of course wearing practically nothing BUT sexy. The following is Janet's message this morning and a prime example of frustration and sums up her view of our efforts on Saturday. ......... Nobody wants to get with us. We are too good looking as a couple, to intimidating. We don't need nobody. Screw them all!!
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User Details are only visible to members.	CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS TEXT BELOW FWD: When I go to Annies I always tip the staff real fucking good, especially the musicians and damn sure take care of the Muscle. People like us up there anyways, but I make sure they do. We go there a lot and any tip money has always paid dividends. We would rather tip folks and sleep in the car verses renting a room. Janet understands this , (not many women would) . People always watch how others perceive you including the staff from the moment you walk in. Either you walk in a hero or a zero. It don't cost much to pay / buy off the staff. FWD: Most of the good looking people were on Baywatch years ago. Wherever Baywatch is.......I'm going!! We try to plan around periods but unavoidable sometimes. During Janets period she just straps on her cock and fucks every girl in the room and gets them off. I have seen her do it many times. Very commendable.
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