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For the record, this goes both ways, which I'm sure someone has already mentioned. I've definitely been on the receiving end of all the right communications only to have it fizzle out unexpectedly and with no apparent cause.

That said, for those who recommend not dealing with SMs that have no certs and aren't lifetime members, I have a question. How are those of us who are new to the site and fall into that category expected to actually meet any people if no one will "deal with us"?

In the week I've been on this site I've been contacted by two "straight" men and got responses from two couples I've contacted. One was clearly a "thank you but we're not interested" email and the other was a litany of questions asking me to prove I'm a real person with real intentions (which I understand).

I fully understand being selective but where does it end? How do you meet new people if you'll only talk to the people you already know?

(Off my soap box now... sorry for the rant.)

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We have only ever had one male not show. But we have had plenty of supposed "Couples" where the wife was sick, pms-ing, watching the kids, etc. Most likely cause is that these men could be married and if your are setting these up on the weekend they couldn't get away from thier wife! On the other hand the whole MFM 3-some can really shy guys away because of their homophobic nature. I recommend trying a few parties because getting guys there for MFM is so easy. Every party we ever went to the single guys were practically tripping over each other for the spot!

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Thats disturbing......

I think it really boils down to either lack of confidence or lack of being comfortable or even intimidated by the male half of the couple with some of these single males.

Im sure anxiety kicks in and those that do follow thru and play, may also have performance anxiety and fear of being a disappointment and not get a call back from the couple.

But that in no way excuses this no-show BS. And this isnt just with swinging dates..ive heard vanilla dating site members say that men stood them up as well.

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Ms Pottart says if she goes to the trouble of shaving that kitty, douching, and an enema just in case they damn well better show, lol. They only get one chance unless we get plenty of notice.

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JR,

I agree with you on the picture thing, have experienced the picture thing too many times already.

Haven't had a couple no show yet, but hey, we have only been in it three months. We have a lot still to discover? Dread? Experience? Not sure of the word to use.

Sophia

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Nothing wrong with a little uproar once in a while Sophia, but I'd like to include the couples who are no shows as well as the ones who do show up and look nothing like their profile pics.

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24,

It is a nice idea but sadly it would cause an uproar like nothing else.

Sophia

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Hot ride there 24! Oh and the bike is nice too ;)


 
 
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Don't give up hope, there are a "few" good single males out there. We recently had our first mfm, and it was fantastic. But we also had our share of no shows I guess it's the nature of the beast. I wish there was a place on this site that we could put there screen name so everyone will know.

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kelt....if I get near Scranton.....invite me and I WILL show up :)

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