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We are fortunate in that we belong to an all adult clothing optional resort. There it is real easy to fing a single guy.
During the cold months we use lifestyle sites. We always meet for drinks on neutral ground first. My wife does enjoy a little flirting at vanilla locations and we have found very few guys that are not into a little threesome fun. |
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We meet select SMs through this site and another swinger site. I do explain that my partner is not a cuckhold. We talk with them on the phone first; and believe me that has weeded out some! Ones that are only into having phone sex on the first call; gone! Ones that obviously do not have a handle on the English language; gone!
We also have had some other not so good experiences with SMs: not showing up, canceling at the last minute (after hotel reservations were made by us), etc. If the guy is not a gentleman first and respectful towards you, drop him. You wife has to be on board 100% She sets the rules. Have fun out there! |
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I'm surprised. We joined thinking we wanted a MFM or MMF or FMM or whatever....LOL and we had lot's of men approach us and even met one...that was enough to tell us it wasn't really what we wanted(no reflection on him) but it was pretty easy and we are older than you....Now finding single women has been harder but then we are talking about one that we have contact so they are out there too. Just be nice and polite and it seems pretty easy...
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Dallas34 welcome.....You would have a better experience finding someone from the site and inviting them to meet yall at a bar than meeting a vanilla guy at the bar..most of the single guys that have a few good certs will know how to get things moving along without drama ....
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thn1045... Exactly right on all points! And it's important, too, that you and your mate are on the same page. I've heard from two of our M friends that they've been brought into several situations where the wife is clueless about the "set up." An anticipated surprise is one this (and can be hot!), but a pressured or hopeful result is a bad idea. Finally, I encourage you single guys to keep trying. More couples are open to it than you'd imagine. Just be respectful, act safe and discreet, don't be intimidating, treat him like the boss (unless he's a cuck), and treat her like a princess. Have fun!
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Welcome to the forum dallas34.
Finding "vanilla" guys in a bar is pretty tough to do but since you are already on SLS, why not just reach out to the guys on the site? I have a SF I see and have no problems getting a guy or two to join us just by emailing them here. I would suggest tweaking your profile and make it a little more inviting with perhaps a few more sexy pics of her. You don't have to show her face in a public shot but she looks to have a very sexy body so show it off! |
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We have had a great deal of good luck finding guys for mfm play right here on sls.
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I hate to admit it but I do get turned on when the wife is having fun with another guy! That being said, it is hard as hell finding a guy and how do you bring it up? What bars can you go to? one guy wanted to fight he did not believe she was married. any suggestions?
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