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Created by: dallas34 Original Starting post for this thread:
I hate to admit it but I do get turned on when the wife is having fun with another guy! That being said, it is hard as hell finding a guy and how do you bring it up? What bars can you go to? one guy wanted to fight he did not believe she was married. any suggestions?

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User Details are only visible to members.	It took us a lot of trial and error before we found the right guy. Mostly my fault (hubby) when we first started we had to narrow down our search to a short list of attributes she looks for. If he has those attributes then we have a meet and greet. No sex. Just talk to see if the chemistry is there. If that goes well we set up a play date. We prefer MFM also. Simple, easy to manage. Must be single though, no married men. My wife makes the choice and has the final say so. She is tough and that makes it hard on the men not us.
Fairburn GA			Username hidden (54 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Just a suggestion here, stay out of bars and clubs and look to meet a man on SLS, look at his certs/pictures/profile etc and use the common sense you should have, then email him and after contact and chatting etc you can pretty much get a feel for him, then Coffee or a drink and go from there at your own speed, most couples I have met in this manner, some might shock you and drop the pre meet and have you right over to their house or hotel! also the couples that contact me are seeking married males only, ya I know I am one of those badddddddd married guys, but am one of the very few on SLS that will post that up front in his profile, anyway they prefer married guys and honestly I would not play with any single fems either, have had enough bad experiences with singles that what to go home with you after!, in the case of a couple the hubby takes her home...good luck in your search and don't give up after reading all the bad press solo guys get here, I have had a great time being a member and been very successful in finding couples
Austin TX			Username hidden (8 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	stay next to your wife while she flirts, be welcoming to the other guy and when the time is right, offer your thoughts on what you would like to see happen.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (20 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Pops... How to find that situation? Just be up front with folks. Your desire is shared by many men. It's hot to have a woman tell you to do those tabu things. I am sure that some couples in your area are looking for a gentleman like you, who is willing to take direction, and serve and enjoy the couple. Good luck and have fun!
Williamsburg VA			Username hidden (31 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Rockn, I am glad that you are being up-front about your bi-curiosity. I think that you should fing some kind of picture that at least shows your body. I, as a female, would not want to hook up with anyone sight unseen, and men tend to be even more visual and have certain visual standards that turn them on. Men have even have code words for the type them turn them on - twink, bear in the homosexual world and BBW, and spinner in the heterosexual world. From what I understand these visual attractions are more hard-wired in men, so you may not be everyone's cup o tea, but the right couple is out there somewhere. It just may take some time. I hear that trying to "turn" a man is futile. If there is no desire, do Not push it.
Lubbock TX			Username hidden (276 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I also would like to ask a MFM question... I would like to be part of MFM but want to explore my bi-curious urges by taking female instruction in the 3some want to try and help her with him. I am curious, so please be patient and open minded. How do I go about finding such a situation?
Benton AR			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	R&R and MFM do not go together ;) if I'm part of an MFM no one will be getting any R&R. PG (and Nic you have a standing invitation)
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14013 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sounds like my kinda party, am i invited? ;^D
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hey trooper, It's time for some R&R! Come visit, we share our toys!
Virginia Beach VA			Username hidden (270 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	people hear me complain about it all the time. and i am not trolling the local bars.
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14013 post)

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TOPIC: MFM