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TOPIC: Lost Interest

Created by: Missthefun Original Starting post for this thread:
My girlfriend has lost interest in the lifestyle. We started out with a bang (pun intended), but then some of our encounters were less than tremendous. She also started experiencing some age related difficulties and put on a few lbs, and I think that also had an effect on her libido. Anyway, I was wondering about others who have been in and out of the lifestyle. I'd certainly like to get back into it but not if she's not interested. In the meantime, I figured I'd get back on here to stay in touch w/ people in the lifestyle. I'd also like to hear from some of the gentlemen we'd met on this website. Our name on here was Clarklynfunseekers. Anyway, love to hear from anyone enjoying 3-somes and wife/girlfriend sharing.

Created by: Missthefun
Original Starting post for this thread:

My girlfriend has lost interest in the lifestyle. We started out with a bang (pun intended), but then some of our encounters were less than tremendous. She also started experiencing some age related difficulties and put on a few lbs, and I think that also had an effect on her libido. Anyway, I was wondering about others who have been in and out of the lifestyle. I'd certainly like to get back into it but not if she's not interested. In the meantime, I figured I'd get back on here to stay in touch w/ people in the lifestyle. I'd also like to hear from some of the gentlemen we'd met on this website. Our name on here was Clarklynfunseekers. Anyway, love to hear from anyone enjoying 3-somes and wife/girlfriend sharing.

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User Details are only visible to members.	"Wouldn't that be a sonofabitch? All this complaining about not playing and just my luck ill be a wet noodle." Lmao!!! Joey, my life is a series of Murphy's Law.... it would be expected for over here. lol. hey, maybe the Mrs would like to have the stronger sex drive for a little while! ...perhaps you can let her enjoy it! ;) LOL@missthefun too.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I get worried if it goes a couple hours. The good news is we seem to be up and running after some adjustment. I'm about to go try it out. Ill report back in the morning .....lol And a better note. Wifey is back in her interested mode and we have PLANS tomorrow night.....WOO HOOO. Lets hope this keeps up. Not to mention lets hope other things keep up too....lol Wouldn't that be a sonofabitch? All this complaining about not playing and just my luck ill be a wet noodle.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	2 days! Oh boy! Wait a few years. Ok, all you guys my age, I'm only speaking for myself, so don't get offended. T
Tolleson AZ			Username hidden (17 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Not having an erection for 2 days sounds like the kind of thing i'd be talking to my doctor about if it were me. Are you saying this as a natural matter of course, or have you tried and the captain won't respond?
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Joey, some ADD med's are time released and some are not. I'm assuming since you are having no relief to this problem, lol, you may be on a time released one. Maybe a short term one might be better... But like Akron said, do give it time. ADD med's side effects 'definitely' decrease with time. Maybe at the end of a few weeks you will be 'well balanced' in the libido dept and still feeling great about your productivity in life. ;) ...oh, were you told you don't have to take it on weekends? (or days off when high functioning is not a must?)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Adderall? The likely effect on your libido and potency are minimnal. Give it time.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Adult ADD I will say the medication works awesome. Im flying through work at warp speed, can concentrate better, dont get distracted, and am actually checking things off my "to do" list. And I feel freaking awesome. Buuuuuuuuuttttttt This current "penile insubordination" aint gonna fly. Gonna see how it goes tonight when it starts to wear off.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You can also add an ED med to your protocol.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	sexually compulsive and hyperactive sexually are not 'generally' symptoms of depression. Other mental issues, yes, (especially anxiety issues) ... but most often (not always) depression causes the opposite on the libido. without asking you what med's you are taking and for what, do take into consideration that the first week or two of most any med can result in an exaggerated side effect that usually calm down or disappear as you continue. if this med is important for you to take, waiting a little time could still be worth it and also it would be a good idea to see if your Dr. agrees with you cutting the dosage as you have. there are many meds that if not taken at the right times can be completely useless.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hell It may be stress, from they why he says he is working, I would be stress out too.
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TOPIC: Lost Interest