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TOPIC: Just rambling about being a single man in a couple's world
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hmm, I live across the street from a blueberry farm...

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I don't want to HEAR about anything being sliced at a swing party!!!!! LOL

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I hear eating kiwi is also a good way to make it yummy...not that I have a plate of sliced kiwi at every party or anything...

L.

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Regarding the smokers vs nonsmokers taste test - Mrs Valovers can detect a big difference, with smokers having a much stronger taste than nonsmokers. Interestingly, she can also tell the difference between the taste of semen with sperm vs the spermless semen of a vasectomized guy. The sperm gives it a stronger taste as well, and also changes the texture.

At least that's what SHE says. Personally, I've never tasted the stuff! LOL

Jim

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Well if your a single man in our part of the world in Lancaster Calif, cum check out our profile and posting in the thread on single men.

If you think you match our search then send us a message.

Patricia

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Unbridled, that reminds me of a slightly funny story... I started studying yoga after I injured my back so I could regain some of my flexibility. I knew that there were mostly women in the classes, but I didn't realize so many were single women. And I'm supposed to be a genius LOL.

One of my friends, a "real ladies man", told me not to tell people that, especially at the bars. Well, we went to a strip bar and I purposely brought it up because I liked seeing his face turn red. I also said, rather loudly, "What's wrong with studying yoga?" and he got upset and said everyone would think I was gay. Well, what happened was a really cute latina gave me a lap dance while she was supposed to be getting me to buy her a drink. Then she gave me her phone number and address...and I never asked for either of them. Well, the next week I had a partner for...couples exercises (hehehe).

hmm...there's a yoga class starting at the community college and I have been feeling kinda...stiff lately. LOL

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tmiatc...

Your ad is a little short and generic. Try being specific about what you are and are not looking for in the women you want to meet, but not so specific that you are describing a specific person.

Also, I've only found five or six single women who've stated that they are specifically looking for single men, and only one is looking for men my age or ethnicity. Maybe in the Detroit area there are more, but the majority of single women on swing sites, just like the couples, are only looking for couples or single women. They prefer to keep single men out of their swing life for whatever reason and rarely if ever answer emails from them.

As for not meeting "crappy" women, try volunteering at civic groups and elementary and junior high schools, church groups, etc. When I moved to Southfield three years ago, I had a date with a great woman only six hours after getting off the bus and moving into my apartment. I met her when I went to one of the schools that had copiers my company serviced and, for some reason, I flirted with her and SHE invited me to dinner and showed me around Detroit and Inkster. A few days later I got an extended tour of her apartment. Too bad a family emergency forced me to move back to my home town. By going to places where the women who shared my interested worked and hung out after work and on weekends, I only met a six or seven crappy women compared to a dozen great women.

It just takes being in the right place at the right time. Figure out what type of woman you are looking for, find out where those women spend their down time, and start spending time there. After a while they will notice you and try to get ton know you. If you don't like going to those types of places, you have to reevaluate what kind of woman you are looking for.

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checking cheaptickets dot com right now for the next flight south LOL

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Lets make it an orgy *grin*

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You say "Hello" alot, don't you, UnbridledPassion? LOL

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