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TOPIC: Just rambling about being a single man in a couple's world

Created by: ABSingleMan Original Starting post for this thread:
When I was in Tacoma, WA, I was regularly involved in swinger functions in Washington, Oregon, and British Columbia. When I moved back to the midwest, I wasn't until I met a woman, quite by accident, that knew a couple that knew a couple that knew and invited me to a party in Ohio. Then we (the woman I met and I) started swinging together. Pure, blind luck. Lasted for three years until she moved back out west. What did I learn? If you are a good person, eventually people will know...but only if they are looking for you. Ask any married man (and I have) and most will say they met their wife quite by accident. They weren't looking for anyone, but they found someone while doing something else. Then they wooed her and married her. Look for something too long or too hard and you will not find it. Try to convince someone you are the man they are looking for and you'll end up sounding like an a**hole. Talk to one half of a couple exclusively and the other half will thing you are trying to hide something from him/her. and please, make the dick pics disappear. I hate seeing that so much in chat that I make sure only females show up in the who's chatting window. Well, I'm through rambling for the night. Waiting for the caffiene buzz to go away so I can get a little sleep before four am. LOL

Created by: ABSingleMan
Original Starting post for this thread:

When I was in Tacoma, WA, I was regularly involved in swinger functions in Washington, Oregon, and British Columbia. When I moved back to the midwest, I wasn't until I met a woman, quite by accident, that knew a couple that knew a couple that knew and invited me to a party in Ohio. Then we (the woman I met and I) started swinging together. Pure, blind luck. Lasted for three years until she moved back out west.

What did I learn? If you are a good person, eventually people will know...but only if they are looking for you. Ask any married man (and I have) and most will say they met their wife quite by accident. They weren't looking for anyone, but they found someone while doing something else. Then they wooed her and married her.

Look for something too long or too hard and you will not find it. Try to convince someone you are the man they are looking for and you'll end up sounding like an a**hole. Talk to one half of a couple exclusively and the other half will thing you are trying to hide something from him/her.

and please, make the dick pics disappear. I hate seeing that so much in chat that I make sure only females show up in the who's chatting window.

Well, I'm through rambling for the night. Waiting for the caffiene buzz to go away so I can get a little sleep before four am. LOL

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Lansing MI			Username hidden (145 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I don't want to HEAR about anything being sliced at a swing party!!!!! LOL
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User Details are only visible to members.	I hear eating kiwi is also a good way to make it yummy...not that I have a plate of sliced kiwi at every party or anything... L.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs. valover must be an expert in her feild. It is so refreshing that someone takes pride in their accomplishment. I'm told that the taste even differs by eating cirtain foods. I would be willing to use my body for experientation purposes for the greater good.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Regarding the smokers vs nonsmokers taste test - Mrs Valovers can detect a big difference, with smokers having a much stronger taste than nonsmokers. Interestingly, she can also tell the difference between the taste of semen with sperm vs the spermless semen of a vasectomized guy. The sperm gives it a stronger taste as well, and also changes the texture. At least that's what SHE says. Personally, I've never tasted the stuff! LOL Jim
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User Details are only visible to members.	Well if your a single man in our part of the world in Lancaster Calif, cum check out our profile and posting in the thread on single men. If you think you match our search then send us a message. Patricia
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User Details are only visible to members.	Unbridled, that reminds me of a slightly funny story... I started studying yoga after I injured my back so I could regain some of my flexibility. I knew that there were mostly women in the classes, but I didn't realize so many were single women. And I'm supposed to be a genius LOL. One of my friends, a "real ladies man", told me not to tell people that, especially at the bars. Well, we went to a strip bar and I purposely brought it up because I liked seeing his face turn red. I also said, rather loudly, "What's wrong with studying yoga?" and he got upset and said everyone would think I was gay. Well, what happened was a really cute latina gave me a lap dance while she was supposed to be getting me to buy her a drink. Then she gave me her phone number and address...and I never asked for either of them. Well, the next week I had a partner for...couples exercises (hehehe). hmm...there's a yoga class starting at the community college and I have been feeling kinda...stiff lately. LOL
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User Details are only visible to members.	tmiatc... Your ad is a little short and generic. Try being specific about what you are and are not looking for in the women you want to meet, but not so specific that you are describing a specific person. Also, I've only found five or six single women who've stated that they are specifically looking for single men, and only one is looking for men my age or ethnicity. Maybe in the Detroit area there are more, but the majority of single women on swing sites, just like the couples, are only looking for couples or single women. They prefer to keep single men out of their swing life for whatever reason and rarely if ever answer emails from them. As for not meeting "crappy" women, try volunteering at civic groups and elementary and junior high schools, church groups, etc. When I moved to Southfield three years ago, I had a date with a great woman only six hours after getting off the bus and moving into my apartment. I met her when I went to one of the schools that had copiers my company serviced and, for some reason, I flirted with her and SHE invited me to dinner and showed me around Detroit and Inkster. A few days later I got an extended tour of her apartment. Too bad a family emergency forced me to move back to my home town. By going to places where the women who shared my interested worked and hung out after work and on weekends, I only met a six or seven crappy women compared to a dozen great women. It just takes being in the right place at the right time. Figure out what type of woman you are looking for, find out where those women spend their down time, and start spending time there. After a while they will notice you and try to get ton know you. If you don't like going to those types of places, you have to reevaluate what kind of woman you are looking for.
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User Details are only visible to members.	checking cheaptickets dot com right now for the next flight south LOL
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User Details are only visible to members.	Lets make it an orgy grin
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