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In reading the responses, its clear that a lot of people have overwhelming email traffic. I guess the fact that I do not, may be a blessing in disguise? Outside of an unmanageable volume of emails, I can't imagine not responding or much less a rude response. I just treat people the way I'd like to be treated.

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-It's rude to email people when you aren't within their parameters.

Yep.

If someone contacts you when it's very clear that they haven't read your profile, they are either arrogant ("I'm so awesome that they won't care that I completely disprespected their wishes") or stupid ("Hmmm... I wonder if 'no single males' actually means that they don't want to hear from single males? I guess I'll write to them and see.").

Arrogant people will never learn to play well with others if people let them get away with being arrogant. Stupid people will never learn if people don't point out their stupid mistakes.

If you want a "polite" way of responding to those rude and stupid people, you could always say "If you go back and actually read our profile, you'll understand why we aren't interested in meeting you."

Just our $0.02.

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I got an email this week that was just a pic of her ass...nothing else...and they lived 2 hours away...who the hell sends an email like that...

Delete...moving on! LOL

Middletown NY
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I respond rudely to a good portion of ours.

Concord CA
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We ignore about 90% of our emails.

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It's rude to email people when you aren't within their parameters. Yes, I am rude in response to people who email and are clearly disrespecting simple things we've requested. Don't email people without reading their profile. That's pretty simple. Then you significantly reduce your chances of receiving a rude email in response to your garbage. :-)

Have a great day!

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Hello all, we reply most often with a thanks but no thanks only with a little more thought for their feelings. But when we get a rude response to our nicely put no thank you we or better put I (Hubby) will let them have it with everything I can find wrong with them, their profile, and e-mail but only after they get rude first. We don't count the "she's hot, wanna fuck" or the short one liners that don't say anything as them being rude. We just respond the same as to anyone else that we are not interested in meeting.

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It kind of seems like a waste of time to us to bother with a rude reply. We set up one of those automatic reply things, so we just shoot the ones who've clearly put zero effort into contacting us that, and if they're persistent then we'll block them.

But we figure we'd our time would be better spent in other ways.

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Although it is tempting to reply rudely to those who cannot seem to read profiles before contacting, sometimes you just need to be the "better" person and not reply with some smart ass comment. In my opinion, either go with your wife on this one or reply "Sorry, no thank you. We do not feel you meet our interests as our profile clearly states."

Good luck in whatever you decide to do. Mrs. Camaro

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On the same note. This isnt being super picky.

A lot of the emails we look at the profile first. Some of them we're like "HEYYYYY....NOW WE'RE TALKING!!"

Then we open the email and its "Sup wud u wana hang? Holla back atcha boy" (White southern boys by the way...lol"

I mean DAM. All it would have taken was a couple lines, something that indicates they read our profile and are a match......And some of these guys would be in the express lane to our bedroom.

But opening an email from a hot local young guy (our type) and finding nothing but a phone number.......Thats a mood killer right there.

They were soooo close....Grrr

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