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TOPIC: Is it ever OK to be rude in your response
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You can't convince a rude person that they're rude most of the time. Whether its a personality disorder, character defect, or just plain lack of home training, its ok in their mind, and there is little chance of influencing their paradigm. I'm sure a lot of us have greeted a person with a polite hello, only to be ignored, 'mean mugged', or some equally dismissive gesture. That only makes the classy people look better.
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If the people aren't smart enough to know they shouldn't contact you, I doubt they would understand what you were trying to tell them.

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Having spent many years in the computer graphics industry, it is amazing how many customers are very rude. Those customers are always a challange and I always was able to bring them around to my level. Although I hardly ever contact couples and wait for them to contact me, I have had to say No Thank You to several that turned out to get nasty because i did so. But, after a few back and forth emails they seemed to understand why I refused them at that time. I always left them with a sense that they could contact me again if their preferances changed and could act as adults.
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BikerGirl … “No Thanks” is the perfect response to someone who is being rude to you. “No Thanks” invites the other party to come up to your level; it’s not necessary for anyone to stoop to their lower level. I think a lot of people in this forum appreciate your comment. At least I sure do.
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Joey....I think most couples (and some singles) can identify with your frustration. As tempting as it is, We believe the better way is to simply just say, "No Thanks".
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CUM4.....move out of Camden.
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I live in New Jersey. If you want to see real rudeness, just come here and drive around the block a couple of times. The rudeness on SLS is kid’s stuff. If someone’s being rude to you on SLS, just hit the delete key. SLS is supposed to be fun.
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I like this. I was ranting about these same simpleminded self important jerks just the other day. I just wish they read the forums. But you are right. It isn't them. Respect peoples wishes. Please.
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