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BikerGirl … “No Thanks” is the perfect response to someone who is being rude to you. “No Thanks” invites the other party to come up to your level; it’s not necessary for anyone to stoop to their lower level. I think a lot of people in this forum appreciate your comment. At least I sure do.

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Joey....I think most couples (and some singles) can identify with your frustration. As tempting as it is, We believe the better way is to simply just say, "No Thanks".

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I live in New Jersey. If you want to see real rudeness, just come here and drive around the block a couple of times. The rudeness on SLS is kid’s stuff. If someone’s being rude to you on SLS, just hit the delete key. SLS is supposed to be fun.

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I like this. I was ranting about these same simpleminded self important jerks just the other day. I just wish they read the forums. But you are right. It isn't them. Respect peoples wishes. Please.

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Thats another pet peeve of mine.

We get a lot of emails directed only at my wife from both singles and couples.

We're a bi couple. So if youre a single guy, your going to be playing with BOTH of us.

So I find it amusing when all they talk about is her.

We get that a lot with straight guys who are hoping we will just forget the "bi part"

We've had in the past, guys who just wanted to get with her and lied.

When she is going down on me, then takes it out of her mouth, looks at him and says "Your turn" and then he turns green and starts stuttering.

By the time he looks back at her, shes fully dressed pointing at the door.

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"Opening up the inbox and there are 44 messages right now."

JOEY-

I had a couples profile with my girlfriend until she got sick of the BS and told me to delete it. We had some fun with the messages from single males wanting to "hook up"...on a hunch, we invited several to meet with me to talk about fucking her...not a single one ever showed. I always made a habit of writing back to them and suggesting that they join a dating site, since they obviously were not swingers.

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"I know everyone says that's not me!"

That's Not Me!

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Cant argue with you one bit Vegas.

Mount Juliet TN
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LOL once again I put this in the whats the big deal category? We do respond to everyone who writes. I guess we are old fashion in that respect, but it seems rude to do otherwise. Then again it maybe because we don't do the job thing, and we have lots of time on our hands when it's cold outside and we are not traveling!

However, I think that 90%, no make that 98% of the people on sites like this fit into one of the following categories. 1.They really have no intention of meeting anyone. It's just a fantasy! or 2. They are nothing like describe themselves. Single guys are married. Hot single women are in reality 350 pound guys with a picture of a hot chick! or 3.The the picture you are looking at is 10 years and 50 pounds earlier in life! or 4. That hot couple is in reality a guy who wants you to talk his wife into swinging. or 5. That hot couple is really looking for a threesome with a female, and they think they can talk you into it once you meet. Have a missed anyone?

I know everyone says that's not me! That's why we don't do "Meet a Swingers Dinners" or "Meet for a Drink and see what Happens." The vast majority of the people we play with we meet in person at clubs, events, or resorts. If they show up at the club you know they are real.

As for the question, answer or not to answer, what difference does it make? It's not likely to happen anyway!

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We get 30-50 a week.

Just looking at the ones from yesterday. 2 couple profiles that are single men. 1 traveler that emailed 3 times. A really overweight 46 year old married man looking for discreet. Another couple profile that is probably a single, 35 pics of her on it with none of him but his email is written as "I" "Me" One that we have given the "no thanks" to on a weekly basis. Someone from 460 miles away just asking for our email. And one thats a well written email but no pics.

And a single 22 year old hot female. Who actually wrote a decent email, but it looks too good to be true...ha

So we have none to respond to out of that batch..

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