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You will probably do what you want to do anyway, but you asked, so......

I don't think it is ever a good idea to be rude, crude or downright nasty to someone.

There are soooo many members whose profiles say one thing, but their actions often contradict the profile.

Then, there are members who respond to a profile quickly, without reading the profile at all or not reading beyond age and other vital information.

MY ADVICE TO YOU is to take the high road and just let it go. If someone is rude, crude or nasty to you, just reply, asking them to stop writing to you. For those who you simply do not want to interact with, a simple, "no thank you" is the best policy. That way you have politely replied and haven't left them feeling any ill will toward you. Being arrogant and nasty towards other members whose only sin was to not meet your profile's stated criteria for a playmate is just plain foolish, I believe.

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You can't convince a rude person that they're rude most of the time. Whether its a personality disorder, character defect, or just plain lack of home training, its ok in their mind, and there is little chance of influencing their paradigm. I'm sure a lot of us have greeted a person with a polite hello, only to be ignored, 'mean mugged', or some equally dismissive gesture. That only makes the classy people look better.

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If the people aren't smart enough to know they shouldn't contact you, I doubt they would understand what you were trying to tell them.

Carrie

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BikerGirl … “No Thanks” is the perfect response to someone who is being rude to you. “No Thanks” invites the other party to come up to your level; it’s not necessary for anyone to stoop to their lower level. I think a lot of people in this forum appreciate your comment. At least I sure do.

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Joey....I think most couples (and some singles) can identify with your frustration. As tempting as it is, We believe the better way is to simply just say, "No Thanks".

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I live in New Jersey. If you want to see real rudeness, just come here and drive around the block a couple of times. The rudeness on SLS is kid’s stuff. If someone’s being rude to you on SLS, just hit the delete key. SLS is supposed to be fun.

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I like this. I was ranting about these same simpleminded self important jerks just the other day. I just wish they read the forums. But you are right. It isn't them. Respect peoples wishes. Please.

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Thats another pet peeve of mine.

We get a lot of emails directed only at my wife from both singles and couples.

We're a bi couple. So if youre a single guy, your going to be playing with BOTH of us.

So I find it amusing when all they talk about is her.

We get that a lot with straight guys who are hoping we will just forget the "bi part"

We've had in the past, guys who just wanted to get with her and lied.

When she is going down on me, then takes it out of her mouth, looks at him and says "Your turn" and then he turns green and starts stuttering.

By the time he looks back at her, shes fully dressed pointing at the door.

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"Opening up the inbox and there are 44 messages right now."

JOEY-

I had a couples profile with my girlfriend until she got sick of the BS and told me to delete it. We had some fun with the messages from single males wanting to "hook up"...on a hunch, we invited several to meet with me to talk about fucking her...not a single one ever showed. I always made a habit of writing back to them and suggesting that they join a dating site, since they obviously were not swingers.

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