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TOPIC: Is it ever OK to be rude in your response
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Rise above the racism or elitism; delete, block and move on.
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I agree with your wife, just click delete. It's not worth the bad karma deliberately setting out to insult and hurt someone! This lifestyle is difficult enough without being slammed for a poorly written intro.
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The most important thing to remember is, if anyone ever contacts you asking for advice or help because , oh I don't know, they had some property stolen at a party, be really rude, mock and belittle their English writing skills, and make jokes about them for the next 3 weeks.
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As a single male, ive seen some rude responses that werent slightly warranted.
Yes, ive read the profile thoroughly and ive examined the sexual orientations etc, etc.. But to get a reply "we dont touch black ever...so youre wasting time and any future correspondence we will block you" is rather harsh in my opinion..at least the threat to block even though there was a simple email sent inquiring if they were open to an interracial MFM event. A simple, "youre not our type, thank you" would suffice. Perhaps supplementation of the profile of "not interested in black males" would eliminate my "scoundrel" kind.... |
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I dont think its cool to be rude, we just will not respond to an email from someone who we clearly stated in our profile that we ARE NOT looking for. This website has a statement at the bottom of messages that state something to the effect of reporting all rude behavior so you might be against there policy as well,
works in your favor if someone is rude to you as well |
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Sadly Inked there are many that lie about that in their profile, so they are hoping you are one of those.
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I respond politely and yet agree that there are a lot of folks out there who send emails without reading my profile. I realize that I am still building it but I thought I was clear in my profile that I'm in no way Bi yet have had many guys email asking if I am. Seriously folks try reading.
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I know exactly what you mean. Time after time I get responses from those who obviously have not bothered to read my profile. If the email is not crude but just not a match, I will be nice and inform them that we are not a match and hope they have better luck on this site. However, if the email is crude, then when they get a curt response back, it's deserved.
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Hmmm....wow, lots of email.....nice to be 20Something......
Just either delete and move on. Respond with: ROFP - Read Our Fucking Profile, also a cousin of RTFM and move on There are LOTS of rude, weird, stupid people out there! Get used to it and deal with it. |
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