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There are not many that actually read profiles. I get all kinds of ppl that do not match what I seek, I just send ......Thank you for your interest but we are not compatible.

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We just delete the emails if it's some fly by night guy or couple who email us. If a SM emails us, and he seems like a nice guy, I'll (male half) politely respond that we're not looking for single guys right now (we're open to MFM, but after a careful selection) but will get back to him if she's up for it. I was a single guy in the LS once upon a time, and I understand the problems they have; thus the more "liberal" attitude toward them.

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Is it ok to be rude...my thought would be no, however, I know that I have been rude. Our profile was set up so as to not limit or choices...exactly that. Our choices. But in our profile, it states multiple times NO SINGLE MALES, with the caveat that we will search out the single male when WE so choose to do so. But it amazes me that the single males who email/IM us have not read our profile and instead just act on the visual cues. It isn't much that we ask...just a little respect.

Merritt Island FL
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That's why I said "It's a really simple process of elimination."

Also, I'm not aware of any option to limit who sends you email. I can turn our profile off for SM's, but it's not our desire to do that. We enjoy interacting with people in the forums and whether they are SM, SF, or a Couple, we'd like everyone we interact with to be able to see who we are.

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If a couple doesn't clearly state what they're looking for, that's on them. We delete every email we receive from SM's and block them because they obviously didn't take the time to read our profile. Or if they did, they obviously don't respect our wishes not to be contacted. And our thought on the matter is if a person can't even respect our online rules, then they probably won't respect our rules for play. It's a really simple process of elimination. A couple SM's take themselves out of the mix all by themselves almost every single day.

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Ok here is what I find and why I might drop a cpl an email no matter what their profile sez... first off I have been contacted by and met couples that in their profile it will say something like seeking couples only, no solo males etc etc or no married males, and then here I am getting an email from them, meeting them and then they tell me how much they want to have a MFM experience! anyway after all those experiences I do drop emails to couples that might not be looking for somebody like me with a Just saying hello type of email, 90% of the time they will respond kindly yes or no as to interest, then you get the "Can't you Read" .."no evil married men" types of response.. and then again more times then not I will have a couple tell me they only play with married men and would never think of a single. The bottom line is this, what is in a profile is not necessarily what the person or couple is interested in, prime example is male half list as straight, and yet I find almost all couples I have met the hubbies are very interested in being very curious, loving to help out etc(handling my cock) and for sure not homophobic, all of which is very cool with me anyway...

So anyway I do get a mix of responses, but vast majority are very kind and not rude....

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Unless it's just "hi" or a nasty initial email, or just a phone number, I will reply back politely and say we are not interested, or that we don't think we'd be a good match, and I always write thanks for emailing, and also usually just a little phrase encouraging them to have fun, etc. I keep it brief, believe it or not, and never once have we gotten a nasty or rude reply back. Never.

I only have two people blocked. One a dom who insisted on bombarding us with emails trying to get together, and the other an older married gent who only likes to perv pics and was being a bother. Both were from VA. I have no one else blocked, but I've been blocked by a former friend. Too bad. Her loss, not mine.

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It is NEVER OK to be rude, particularly on SLS as it really is a small community. However, if you've declined the invitation and the person persists......BLOCK!

Vero Beach FL
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kinkster, you should be aware that this website often has problems with its email system. I've sent emails to people over the past month or so and was unable to attach anything but pictures from my public profile. Only when they wrote back was I able to attach either personal or private gallery pics. Just in case that is happening when they write, you might want to give them another chance by requesting face pics in a return email.

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We try our best to reply to everyone even if it's a "sorry we are not a match", but even just yesterday this was very frustrating because we got 3 emails from couples asking if we are interested in them. None of them sent a face picture or opened private pictures (of their faces) or even offered to email any. Instead they emailed or only had available bodyshots with faces edited out. Our profile clearly states we want to see pictures. We have our pictures open to all viewers. It amazes me how many people here are "let met" "lets fuck" and they expect you to make a decision based on a headless photo. Yes I have been a little sharp with a few, but generaly I try to be as polite as I can manage.

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