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TOPIC: Inviting a vanilla SM for our first MFM
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M, I never said swingers are better at sex. All I said is most guys get the jitters the first time they are in an MFM which can cause anxiety resulting in lack of an erection. Experience and/or alone time helps resolve these issues.
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This from a limp-dicked, overweight loser who is too embarased to even post a pic?

Your posts continue to prove what a classless, fool you are.
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Sed, if you are in a MFM and the SM doesn't get it up, it is because of you and I could understand why. It is about the woman in the middle. Like ED, the best remedy is a good woman not, Viagra+. Next time you can't get a guys dick up, look at yourself.
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No, because I certainly have had my share of the so called "LS" dudes with a dick that was happy to just snooze.

Sex is sex, just because you're a swinger, does not mean that you're better at sex, or have more sex than someone who isn't a swinger.
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In general, guys with experience in the LS are less likely to get nervous with the husband present and less likely to become attached to the wife.

So the OP simply needs to weigh that against "organic" attraction in a vanilla bar.

Simple, right?

lol
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Oops - profile open now, read it over...retract offer so as not to be PITA SM already! LOL Best of luck to you in your adventures!
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Mrs. Camz - I think you answered your own question - would not be the best idea to setup Mr that way. Not to say you couldn't still peruse a few SM and float them by him if you are attracted. Note: 3 hours is doable drive...LOL
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Thanks for the advice about trying out a "professional SM" Like I said my Mr. isn't really into taking applications and looking for SM's on SLS and would prefer a more organic approach, so not sure how it would work.

hmmmm...Was thinking maybe I could set the scene by finding a good matched professional to meet us up at a bar w/o husband knowing and pretending at first he's just some random guy at the bar, then telling him later that I set it all up. Not sure if this would be considered as dishonest or if it would be a good move and he'd be grateful for it. Actually nm, he'd probably see the messages back and forth anyway ...duh!
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All of our playmates have had previous lifestyle experience which has made all the difference. We're experienced enough now to try a newbie but will stay mostly with those who have been there. Fewer potential problems, better chance of success
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