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TOPIC: Ideas for starting a MFM
Created by: fngunner
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I have our first threesome set-up for Friday night. She's never been naked in front of anyone but me so she is very nervous and excited at the same time. We have already met the guy and things went well. Now we are just trying to figure out how to get things moving. We will be getting a hotel room. She wants to meet somewhere to have a couple drinks before we get down to business. Does anybody have any suggestions about how to get things started once we get back to room? or should we just let things happen? I told her its her fantasy and we will do whatever she wants, but she's not sure what she wants. Any suggestions?

Thanks

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after some time maybe a drink and a bowl I will look at the wife and say TO LO tits out legs open...after all we are all there for the same reason

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What my wife and I did to move things along was, when we returned to the room I started kissing and caressing her in front of him. Then I would start undressing her. The rest went very well.

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Great thread, here! Oh, and I've always used olive oil ... but since the coconut oil is right here, I'll try that next, and then the Udder Cream :)

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Great story. Really enjoyed reading it.

Udder cream ... Is a good alternative to massage oil, works well and doesn't leave greasy residue when you rub it in. Just thought I'd add that.

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Haven't been with SM for a while. But in the past, if it was time to play, my wife just took charge by pulling her play partner to bed and started to make out. The clothes were usually gone within 10 minutes. In the mean time, I just prepared the camera and handy cam to record the fun. Once everything was set, I gauge the situation. Did she look like she was enjoying her 1 on 1 play or did she look like she wanted another set of hands and a cock to greet her busy(er).

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Meeting for a drink is what we do every time, it takes the edge off. Once we get back to the room I start playing with my wife a little and this seems to get things started.

Morgantown WV
 
 
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Great story, gunner. Good to hear the successful newb stories amongst all the fakes and flakes.

PS: Your pic makes me think of the Commodores...

Herndon VA
 
 
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Congratulations Gunner on picking up your first SM and her 2nd ever man?! Wow! Good going and Good luck!

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Congratulations! We're planning our first MFM with a single guy (not a spouse of a couple we already know) and glad to hear that yours went so well. Communication is so important, and luckily, we don't have a problem in that area. In the forums, we see so many problems and complaints; it's nice to see a success story once in a while. (Of course, what's the point in posting something when all goes well? ;) Good for you.

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Great story! This is how it should work. The rewards of good communication are great.

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TOPIC: Ideas for starting a MFM