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User Details are only visible to members.	VALovers- I don't think anyone here, including me, suggested that you have racist or white supremacist thoughts in your head. Alphageek, if you don't see a difference between fetishizing "hung black studs" and simply finding black men or women attractive, then I think we'll have to agree to disagree. My experience has been that there are a lot of people out there (disclaimer: not necessarily those who have posted in this forum) who want to be with black men or women because of unconscious racial stereotypes. We try to stay away from such people because that's our preference. It might not bother some other people, and that's fine. (Heck, it might be a turnon for some!) Luckily, there are also a lot of people out there whose interracial attraction is not based on unconscious racial stereotypes. My point is simply to encourage folks (of all colors) to think before proceeding.
Atlanta GA			Username hidden (17 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I would be terribly remiss if I didn't thank EandP and centralbucks for their very kind remarks about me. I deeply appreciate your friendship and support. I guess after spending two decades fighting for equal rights and equal pay for all citizens, male AND female, Caucasian AND any other race, it really angered me to have someone with an apparent giant chip on his shoulder alleging that those who posted here have "racist and white supremacist thoughts lurking in our heads." This debate, like the Bush-Kerry debates, will not go down in history as comparable in greatness to the Lincoln-Douglas debates! But like the Lincoln-Douglas debates, this one is ready to be put on the trash heap of history.
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hottiewife wrote: <<sorry guys for opening this can of worms.>> This proves the validity of one of my favorite Murphy's Law Correlates. It's called "Zymurgy's First Law of Evolving Systems Dynamics," and says Once you open a can of worms, the only way to re-can them is to get a bigger can. ROFL
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User Details are only visible to members.	no prob u guys
Sylmar CA			Username hidden (14 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	sorry guys for opening this can of worms. maybe from now on ill try and figure it out for myself
Sylmar CA			Username hidden (14 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have to agree with everybody else Takoma. You're the only who read any kind of racial prejudice overtones into the original message. You then go on to say "But let's not pretend that wanting to try "hung black studs" or "submissive oriental dolls" is the same thing as preferring blonds or having a foot fetish." I have to disagree with you. It is the same for most people. I happen to find oriental women and black women very sexy and attractive. Just like I find women with big tits or an English/Aussie accent sexy. It's a fetish for most of us here. And the ones that aren't, don't worry about them.
Decatur GA			Username hidden (58 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LMAO @ Nuro
Hattiesburg MS			Username hidden (527 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"But let's not pretend that wanting to try "hung black studs" or "submissive oriental dolls" is the same thing as preferring blonds or having a foot fetish. The former are unfortunately much more complicated by this country's history of race relations." Takoma, why not? Your statement about "Oriental dolls" could be considered racist especially after the humiliating treatment the Japanese experienced when they were forced into internment camps during the war. The need for us to lecture you about the poor treatment the Japanese experienced at the hands of Americans and force our opinion on you is not there. You commented in the forum and that wasn't enough for you. We as a couple are very aware of the status of race relations in this country but don't feel the need to caution others on their fantasies or desires in this venue. Finally no one in this forum felt the need to caution you about sharing your sex lives with others. It's your business why you're here and yours alone. This lifestyle is probably the only thing in life that EVERYONE gets 100% of what they want out of it whether we agree with it or not. Everyone here is entitled to just that.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Who called anybody a racist? If you will read through the posts carefully, you will see that the only person(s) who called anyone a racist was VALovers. I was surprised to see it coming from them because they generally do have helpful posts, but they resorted awfully quickly to name calling in this instance. I would hope that we could agree to avoid such things and keep it positive. I'm also not sure why some are accusing me of anger, condemnation and so on for suggesting that the original poster do a little thinking before she explores her interracial fantasy. She would probably do well to think before exploring any of her fantasies. This is clearly not the place to judge people for their fantasies, and I've endeavored to avoid doing so. I don't know how to make that clearer. Look, I'm all in favor of fantasies and exploration across racial lines. I agree with several of you who have said that it's a good thing. I also agree with VALovers that it's possible to have such curiosity without getting all wrapped up in fantasies about "hung black studs" and the like. But let's not pretend that wanting to try "hung black studs" or "submissive oriental dolls" is the same thing as preferring blonds or having a foot fetish. The former are unfortunately much more complicated by this country's history of race relations. Granted, on a site like this, even those fantasies are not off-limits or objects of condemnation. To each her own. My point, and a simple one at that, is that they are worthy of careful consideration.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I have to agree with VA, here. I've been following this thread from the start, and know that the only person posting in anger and condemnation is you, takoma. Up until now this thread has been supportive and helpful. Even amongst the (let's be totally PC now) people of different ethnic backgrounds, there was nothing but support, humor, and good feelings. I applaud anyone for wanting to "try" something that they may have been afraid or reserved about. It's extending the hand (or whatever) of friendship and camaraderie rather than ignoring someone or "not speaking about things" that's how prejudices are broken down. I would like to "try" an oriental woman, a very tall woman, and anything else that I have not done out of lack of opportunity. Does that make me prejudiced or a racist? Of course not. Kirk
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