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TOPIC: How long shall I give performance anxiety the benefit of the doubt
Created by: jandscincy
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He's a delightful single male in every other way (and not on sls so I need not worry about hurt feelings). He is lovely to talk with, understands the dynamic J and I like with a single male and very giving in other ways. Last week was the fifth attempt and I feel pretty much done even though I really like him...Thoughts?

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I would say two times of not performing would be enough! However since you seem to really like him, then I would suggest that he take some pills to get him hard and then enjoy him! You can find them at your local sex shop, but not all pills work so he might need to try a few different ones before he finds one that works.

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Sed- I fear it is less kind than a bit lazy and reluctant to start the vetting process over again! First meets are not my favorite part! I'd absolutely have problems if I were male! Thanks for the nice words. We have moved on... No big deal.

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try ditching your perfume (if you were using it) can't perform if you can't breath and many guys allergic to perfume either don't know it or won't admit it for fear of offending the girl. we have male playmate and it is his anxiety meds that keep him semi hard...... but my wife says he is orally pleasing so we keep him around.... we were with a girl a couple weeks ago and for me it was her perfume.... just could not get the motor running.... we saw her again last night and no perfume and no problems.... just a suggestion ... but slot of times people overlook the simple things.

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Every man has his 'wild thing' fantasy. When you discover the attributes of his unknown 'wild thing' you can be~create the magic that improves his performance.

Treasure Is FL
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Well, I figured you weren't dense but I'm worried that my vocabulary has been compromised by responding directly to that really long post down there. I'll switch back to nice short words...It is safer!

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Since sexual performance is directly related to sexual stimulation, some factors may be unknown, but within the realm of power for the magician.

The purpose of Tantric incantation is to evoke the unknown source of sexual stimulation for one's love partner.

Treasure Is FL
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No decoder necessary; I know exactly what you are suggesting and I will happily accept. Make that eagerly.

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I do know that wasn't your intent but you mustn't cast aspersions before sampling the wares. (Good heavens, that last sentence almost needs the decoder. I'm frightened.)

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It was just a funk_ahoy moment, right?

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Sexy S., you know that wasn't my intent. :)

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TOPIC: How long shall I give performance anxiety the benefit of the doubt