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Created by: DandH2 Original Starting post for this thread:
We have really enjoyed some very hot 3 somes. My girl tends to be fairly forward with other women, so those happen with relative ease. The difficult ones are those with single men. We both really enjoy those! But those are surprisingly difficult to make happen. You'd think that, as horney as we guys are, that they'd be the simplest to set up. Open to all of your ideas and suggestions, but I'd like to offer a couple of my own to getthings kicked off. 1. When meeting for the first time, single guys should be friendly and accomodating. Be attentive to the female, and very obliging to the male. They need to feel that you're safe and will play along their lines of fun. 2. Single guys: Don't be afraid to make the first move. Be suggestive. For example, invite the couple back to your hotel room/hot tub, etc. Being propositioned can be a real turn on! Just be very respectful and do NOT be pushy!!! 3. Couples: Don't be afraid to make the first move! I will often tell her to just reach over and rub her hand on his crotch. That guarantees a good start.

Created by: DandH2
Original Starting post for this thread:

We have really enjoyed some very hot 3 somes.  My girl tends to be fairly forward with other women, so those happen with relative ease.  The difficult ones are those with single men.  We both really enjoy those!  But those are surprisingly difficult to make happen.  You'd think that, as horney as we guys are, that they'd be the simplest to set up.  Open to all of your ideas and suggestions, but I'd like to offer a couple of my own to getthings kicked off.
1. When meeting for the first time, single guys should be friendly and accomodating. Be attentive to the female, and very obliging to the male.  They need to feel that you're safe and will play along their lines of fun. 
2. Single guys: Don't be afraid to make the first move.  Be suggestive.  For example, invite the couple back to your hotel room/hot tub, etc.  Being propositioned can be a real turn on!  Just be very respectful and do NOT be pushy!!!
3. Couples: Don't be afraid to make the first move! I will often tell her to just reach over and rub her hand on his crotch.  That guarantees a good start.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Right now, Hawaii or the Virgin Islands has the temps I want! We are comparing calendars this weekend - but between business travel, athletics travel and obligations at home, ns, etc there's not a whole lot of time left over.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2719 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Awww, thanks ladies. We definitely need to make the effort to connect and while I would LOVE for you to come for a visit, perhaps we can find a better warmer venue. ;^D
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	SB - yes, you definitely should! ;-)
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1927 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	D&H, I too like to indulge in flirting and playful teasing up to a point that, if it is time to make the first move and it is not forthcoming from one of the males, I do not mind doing so. I live in the deep South in the middle of the so called "Bible Belt" I was actually contacted once by a couple that were members of a church I used to attend. Awkward!! So yes, I choose my venues to display that exhibitionism wisely, it is not my intent to outright offend the conservative citizens, only tease them. I am in New Orleans several times a year and in Memphis nearly every weekend with Mr. SB, my most daring behavior is usually in one of those wicked fun cities. I have never been to Las Vegas either, I bet it would be fun that way. Though from all I hear from PG down there--- it seems like I should pay a visit to YOUNGSTOWN, OHIO and see for myself what all the talk is about.....
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2719 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	lol couldn't resist ;)
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13970 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	*sigh
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	well i was sort of hoping for twice in two months after the two year wait however someone made sure that wasn't going to happen...
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13970 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Bastid, who invited you back? lol
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mark that on your 2015 calendar...LOL Been a while, had to poke the bear! LOL
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Really need to plan a trip to Williamsburg....
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