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TOPIC: How Often
Created by: allnew2us23
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We just met a wonderful single lady that we both enjoy spending time with and having fun. The question is how often do people meet for play? We don't want to be to taken as to demanding meeting to frequently and also don't want to seem like we aren't interested meeting enough either. Looking for others live experiences and thoughts. Thanks

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There are no rules. When I was actively dating couples we met once per week. I typically went on "dates" with just the female or sometimes both but it was always a regular thing until I started dating someone who wasn't interested in non-monogamy.

For other people it's every couple days and for others every month or two.

The only right answer is "what works for you".

Herndon VA
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We agree with vabeachcouple, it all depends on the 3 of you. We have had 3rds that we got together with a few times a year and 3rds that we thought might as well move in because we were together so much. There is no set answer. Congrats on the great 3some!! When the euphoria wears down a little and through communication with all partners you will be able to work out something that works for all of you.

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When we have a favorite playmate, we try to play at least 6x/year. We also try to have SEVERAL favorite playmates, so we don't get over-involved with any one. There is safety in numbers. It really reduces the chances of getting emotionally attached beyond just warm friendship.

Jim

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Often enough that you are all happy about it.

Not so often that it gets routine or takes focus away from your "normal" lives.

How often this is depends on all 3 of you.

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We just met a wonderful single lady that we both enjoy spending time with and having fun. The question is how often do people meet for play? We don't want to be to taken as to demanding meeting to frequently and also don't want to seem like we aren't interested meeting enough either. Looking for others live experiences and thoughts. Thanks

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TOPIC: How Often