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Goldnspice:

How do you ever expect to get to know anyone in the Lifestyle if your profile is blocked from couples.

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SNT

Thank for the input, I guess because we do those things and even more I just assume everyone knew that. I guessed wrong, I'm not sure I would hold a party with strangers or at least not all strangers. We have had a mixed group and that seems to have worked out pretty good. But we still like knowing everyone before we invite them into our home.

Maybe before having a house party you might want to go to a club party to meet a few more people. Without knowing your level of experience or how long you have been in the Lifestyle it hard to know what you are looking for.

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Thanks to all for the info now, we just have to find the folks to join us. LOL

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At our house parties we have to turn DOWN the heat b/c we tend to all get a bit, er, overheated!

Is there a couple who can sort of "co-host?" Here are things to consider: Privacy, including covering any windows. Off limits rooms, including those rooms belonging to your children, if applicable. Provide towels, bathroom wipes, up to you if you want to provide condoms or not (we do, and have been at parties where there is a bowl of them handy) Have a few "rules:" Closed door means the people inside want privacy' Open door means others can either join in or watch, your call.

Have a common area, such as the kitchen, where guests can unwind, socialize, etc., without any pressure to have sex, or to refresh themselves. Provide water and light snacks. We also provide the alcohol, but that's just us.

One of you needs to make sure things are going okay, so you might want to take turns participating, unless everyone is all in the same room. This does not mean you have to patrol the house, but you should have someone who is aware of any impending "drama" or problems.

Make sure your guests don't wander outside naked, or have sex on the lawn UNLESS your home is not in a family neighborhood. You just don't want to invite that kind of trouble for yourselves.

Hope this helps. We LOVE hosting swing parties,, and hope to do so again very soon.

Gina

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It's easy, just invite people you know or maybe want to know and run it like any other party. The only difference is you will have sex with your guests. You might want to let people know to wear naughty cloths or bring a dish or bring what they like to drink. Usually we will have the food but we do ask they bring there drinks. Just make sure you turn up the heat a little so the ladies aren't cold.

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Do you already have the people in mind you wish to invite?

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No we have not, but want to try and put a very small one together.

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Welcome to the fora!

Have you been to a house party before?

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We are a couple looking to have a small party. The problem is we do not know how to have on?

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