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elkridge, welcome. And glad you are still with us. For some of us the natural tendency is to have, or even to require, good feelings to have good sex. Then the trick is to turn this into better feelings for your life partner.

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This is my first post ever, I've been reading for awhile, and I cannot resist chiming in on this one. My husband and I went through a situation where there were major feelings between the couples. For us it lead to nothing but disaster. He was ready to run out the door when these feelings came to light and I convinced him it could work. That is the last time I will not listen to my wise husband. Thank God we came out the other side stronger, as a couple and personally, than ever. To look back and think that I could ever consider loving another man other than my husband horrifies me.

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In a word? YES! And I would't have it any other way. Nor would my play partners.

Youngstown OH
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Seeing how the question was "have you ever developed feelings for a partner?" I would have to say yes. It took a long time but it can happen.

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I was joking. Actually, I was lightly mocking those who think it can't be done, or that it shouldn't be pursued. There is a segment to "swinger" culture that is very superficial and turns us off immensely. There is also a segment to "poly" culture that can be somewhat snobby. I've been on both ends of the spectrum. I've even been in the position where my openness toward a poly relationship may have contributed to a tragic suicide. There are risks in everything we do, but when two or more people can learn to love without bounds, without selfishness or the superficiality of a strictly physical relationship, it is a beautiful thing.

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You did not VA, but someone posted something about running, I'd like to understand such statements, and what they are based on.

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I think people take the term Poly to mean different things as well. To quote a few lines off the internet, what Poly means to me: "Poly is generally only differentiated from swinging in that swinging emphasizes sex with others as merely recreational. In Poly relationships sex is not necessarily a primary focus, it is only one aspect of their relationships." Maybe i use the term too loosely when describing our preferences here, but i was just trying to answer the OP as it related to us. So, i do appreciate the words of caution from all, but we wouldn't trade what we do or how we do it for anything. :)

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I do not discourage anyone. I simply urge extreme caution.

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To those who discourage others from getting involved in polyamorous relationships, may I ask why you say that? do you speak from experience? and if you do speak from experience, do you believe that everyone is identical to you and would fail as you have?

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I just wanna fuck ya like im never gonna see you again........... :) No in truth most of my close friends in the lifestyle I have known many years. :)

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