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TOPIC: Getting a friend to join us for a MFM threesome NEED ADVICE
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i agree with rusky you should find another guy. hell we all know there are a million guys on sls as appose to. MANY would be happy to meet you. You can start slow to build a comfort zone for her and then let the games begin...

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If you have played with him once before, he either did not like it, or he is uncomfortable with it. We, personally, do not play with guys that are in relationships. One problem he could be having with this is a moral issue. He may feel like he is cheating. We did have a similar situation one time with a friend of ours. He joined us one night and was too uncomfortable to perform. So, he went out with us one night, and when we got home, I went in the bedroom and laid down. My wife stayed with him. He had no problem being with her alone. I let them mess around alone a couple of times, and now he has no problem in a mfm.

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I agree with Triple Threat wholeheartedly.

I would suggest that one of you, the one that has the closest emotional relationship to him, take him to lunch or something and simply ask how he really feels about it. Let him express his feelings about hte situation.

If he doesn't want to for some reason, honor his feelings.

If he wants to but there is some sort of a situation, try to come to a compromise with him.

Usually in the swingworld, girls rule. But in this situation, it seems to be the reverse.

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Remember, "No means No". If he is silent while masturbating with you, that means no to sex with you. Don't push it. If you want to find a single male for an MFM, either (i) look for profiles of SMs in your area with a lot of quality certifications, or (ii) go to your local swing club and ask for a reference.

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TOPIC: Getting a friend to join us for a MFM threesome NEED ADVICE