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TOPIC: Folks who ram hard and fast WHY
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"Every woman, even every experience is a life unto its own"

totally agree. Even though Trooper is used to hard and fast with me, when with other ladies he finds out what they like. Not everyone likes to be bent into a pretzel and rode hard. But not all of us like things soft and gentle either.

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Incredible. The one size fits all mentality is a sure sign of inexperience, or laziness. Every woman, even every experience is a life unto its own.

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without foreplay not so much, but it doesn't take much to get me to the point that I want hard and fast. Slow and gentle your more apt to piss me off or put me to sleep.

as far as injuries, stress fractured my own rib with my own hip bone.

And I pulled a headboard off a wall in a hotel...opps.

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Mrs LA actually likes to be fingered pretty aggressively after she is good and warmed up and usually by the time we've made it to a room and that far along she's good and warmed up. As far as fucking she has always liked it hard and rough. Most guys she plays with don't fuck her as hard as she likes it because they are not used to women you like it. When I'm with another woman I hold back and I'm not as hard and rough with them unless they let me know that's what they want.

She is very vocal about what she wants and believe me if a guy was just ramming his fingers or whatever in her and she didn't like it he would know about it. Of course she's also vocal about wanting it hard!!!!!

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Your wife has to inform the guy she is playing with what she likes. Speak up, move their hand from a place that is not comfortable to a place that is pleasurable. Not every girl is the same, neither is every guy.

Fisting done wrong can lead to severe damage. A lady that I know had to have her bladder fixed due to tearing. Some men think what they see in porn is what all the ladies like.... wrong....

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wow...lots of interesting responses. Just for clarity, the original issue was guys who think that ramming their fingers (not whole fist) hard and fast into a woman, is the best way to get her off. While, my wife finds it painful and unpleasant, we know that some enjoy it. Our problem has been that too many men ASS-U-ME that all women like it, and it has spoiled the fun for my wife too many times.

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If we are derailing this thread into sex related injuries, I sustained a hernia having sex last Thursday. Lol

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Actually, I believe that the OP is referring to fingers :). When men decide that their hand is now a Black and Decker drill and they start 'pistoning' the female as if she's being drilled.

Not all women can handle a fist :).

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The OP referred to pounding with the fist which seems rather odd but I do know many women who like to be fucked good and hard. It is not something I would ever "impose" on a woman but I am happy to deliver when requested.

IMHO, the key to great sex is knowing what your partner wants and being able to provide it intuitively. I've never claimed to be a great lover but I do pay attention to the lady's reactions and simply try to do more of what she enjoys, be it slow and sensual or hard and fast. The prize is her orgasm, the bonus is mine.

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We have been with women who love this and women who don't. Just this past weekend played with a group that loved it. One woman after the other went for it during play (no, it was not 'imposed' on them) so who am I to judge?

Mrs Muir is not overly fond of it, though she LOVES a good solid pounding she often claims rather vociferously that most men really don't know HOW to fuck hard. As many here stated, they often just start ramming away... We are fortunate that the couples we have played with so far understand this for the most part.

IMHO, sex is an exquisite ballet of hard, soft and everything in between and should be enjoyed in long stretches of time....

T&G

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