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"its YOUR choice"

That is why I usually do not get involved in these threads. I read them though and agree with some barebackers as proclaiming their style and sticking to it. It is not my place to tell anyone how to manage their risks. But trying to convince me that I should bareback because it is safer than jumping out of a plane or any other activity is bullshit. It has nothing to do with, Shibby you were not the one engaging in that behavior. All posturing over this or that really does not matter to us one bit, like you we will do what we want to do.

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I don't want to drag another member into it, but someone we both know puts it as simply as it gets. He says he is barebacker and it is in his profile~~that's all he proclaims. Hell for all Vegas knows I could be a barebacker, and even if I was I would still say the same thing. The risks of other activities in life have nothing to do with the risks in having sex. A person either accepts those risks for the style they do or not. Trying to convince others it is just as safe to do this or that is no offense, dumb.

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I have been trying to figure out how to do it. I wish we could post images somehow I don't think we will ever have that option.

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" or jumping out of a perfectly good air plane"

Hey I had no choice, I was told to jump. As far as my posts, I believe it is very clear that I was talking about my wife and I. Sheeesh I need to start drawing pictures.

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Interesting comments, I'm not attempting to change anyone's mind. Frankly who cares? I doubt seriously I'll ever meet any of you. Even if we did so what? We've never had any difficulty finding playmates in the lifestyle. The problem with issues like this is that we all think we already know everything there is to know. I wasn't trying to imply that anyone was stupid for not thinking the same as I do. However, I do understand as that is exactly what I think some of you are saying.

I did noticed that no one bothered to attempt to look up some kind of verifiable reference about AIDS in the lifestyle. That's because our opinions are already formed. No one is going to convince you or I to change our opinion in a forum discussion.

Maybe it's because we live in Vegas, but I see everything we do as a risk. If you place your bet without knowing the odds of winning, like most people do, you will loose! That's how casinos make money! The risk of getting AIDS in the lifestyle is extremely remote. I've never seen anything that verifies it's ever happened. Some of you are freaked out about getting AIDS, but think nothing of lighting up, driving after a few drinks, not wearing a motorcycle helmet, or jumping out of a perfectly good air plane! We are all going to die sometime, we just don't know when, where, or from what. Some activities are riskier than others. What you do is your choice, but don't assume it's the only wise choice for everyone!

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I don't usually get involved in these threads because no one is going to educate me to change how I fuck, and I am not trying to educate others. But that said, in the recent posts it appears the bareback crowd are the ones attempting to change minds. My post to Vegas was not an attempt, or even close to change his mind, but IMO his post was. I agree with Deb, do what you want it is your life, but other safety issues not sexual related really have nothing to do with it at all. It is comparing apples to oranges.

BTW the us military sends soldiers into harms way, but will give disciplinary action for not using a condom outside of marriage. The same as they will for not wearing a motorcycle helmet.

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It's interesting how saying anything about safe sex or guns both bring on a barrage from proponents. Our country definitely has an extreme case of paranoia about just about everything. You should see the look on people faces when I tell them we are driving into Mexico for a couple weeks!

Rather than just stating that you buckle your seat belt give some facts. I'm saying smoking cigarettes is far more dangerous than sex. That's based on the simple fact that over 400,000 people die in the US every year from smoking cigarettes. In the US people auto fatalities have been dropping dramatically but last year 32,788 people died in the US in auto accidents. Exposure to second hand smoke kills approximately 53,800 people every year in the US.

To make this conversation real and compare apples to apples. Tell me the number of people who died, last year, in the US from AIDS. That's not the total number of people who have died since time began or the number of people who died in Africa. News flash we don't live anything like they do in Africa! Now break that number down. How many people are like you and I? How many are gay men or IV drug users? You do have to wade though a lot of bullshit as there is tons of data on the subject. Can you find one single documented case of AIDS in swingers? If this disease is so dangerous how many people do you personally know with AIDS who are not gay men or IV drug users? I'm sure you all know a lot of swingers. How many of them have gotten AIDS?

How many of you have had shots for Hepatitis B? It's very similar to AIDS in the way it's transmitted. However, your chances as a heterosexual of getting Hebatitis B are much higher. How many of you have had the shots that give you a lifetime of protection? I have, a long time ago.

My problem is more of an allergic reaction to latex. One latex condom and that's the last sex I have for a week. You would not believe the rude comments some people have made about that! Whatever you do or like to do is your personal preference. However, we do a lot of things that are far riskier than having sex without a condom. I think it's a false sense of security!

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that running with scissors thing, is that with points up, or down?

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Just think about who has AIDS. Gay and IV drug users. How often to you share needles? How often do you have rough anal sex and bleed?

A LOT more people that that have AIDS It could be that 24 year old buff guy that wants to fuck you. Hey he looks clean :/

Not wearing a condom is like running with scissors

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Never met a dick I wanted so bad I threw caution to the wind. Maybe when I dont care if I get something. But, until I get that senile. Wrap it or pack your toys and go play elsewhere.

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