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Mrs Sav, nobody suggested you or anyone should feel the need to fuck anyone.
What is an Ex? Ex wife or husband? Ex boyfriend/girlfriend? Former lover/sex buddy?
Unless you have a policy of never repeating sex with anyone, it's likely you'll have an occasion to reunite, along with your current spouse. If it's not objectionable to any of the involved parties -- why should anyone else think you ought not do it?

And some of us really do retain strong positive feelings for former loves and "Exes", however you define it.
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They're a EX for a reason. Mine went vanilla after we divorced 5 yrs ago and I got back in the lifestyle. As for my partner, he's tried to get his ex in our bed a few times but she & I do not get along and it's best she now lives in another state.
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sw baby ..your definetly in the top 25% and your tits are amazing
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Before we got into the lifestyle, my husband was talking to me about it. We had not been online or in a lifestyle club. It was difficult for me to wrap my brain around having another man in my bed after almost 30 years of faithfulness. I had no idea where to begin. I suggested an old lover - well more of a booty call. I knew that he was good in bed. I thought that he would be likely to be attracted to me, and it felt a little "safer."

i can see the danger involved. As the wife gets more involved in the lifestyle, she may become more comfortable and feel less of a need to fall back into her comfort zone.
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I'd have to say HELL NO!!!
Merritt Island FL
 
 
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Husband here

I don't think so, it would never work either for the wife or myself. Way to much baggage.
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I have one that I would possibly let join if I ever saw him again anyway. But were were less a couple and more of fuck buddies anyway.

My x right before Trooper? Oh hell no. My judgement there was bad. Very Very bad. I can't even think about having sex with him without wanting to go be sick.

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I'm with Outdoors 100%. We've often talked about including her ex; we'd both be fine with it, but he'd probably get confused, so we ruled against it. We both get along fine with all of our exes. I can never quite understand why exes become enemies. Geez, you were attracted to them once; if they are now monsters, what does that say about your judgment in the first place?
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