Ever invited her ex to join you: Swingers Discussion 217031

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TOPIC: Ever invited her ex to join you

Created by: milo124 Original Starting post for this thread:
Sometimes, she would prefer an ex because of the comfort level, familiarity, and knowing what will happen. My opinion is that it may not be a bad idea. What say you?

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User Details are only visible to members.	Ex husbands or Significant others..No. There's a reason why they are exes and personally, I cannot imagine being intimate with them ever again. Mrs. M
Davis CA			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have never done the serious relationship ex thing, but have done the one time fling ex and had nothing but a positive outcome, kinda like unfinished business was settled lol. She has one ex that she will tell me about how good he fucked her. and its great sexy time stimulus, but during the day Im not sure we would go there. Who knows though. Love her to have fun, but stirring up old emotions I might end up out on the street or in jail LOL
Dearborn MI			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Maybe I just don't have good ex's. They are an ex for a reason. I am a firm believer of going back to an ex (even it is only for a 3some) is moving backwards in life. There are plenty of fish (although it takes a lot of searching) in the sea.
Albany NY			Username hidden (29 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Would I ever want to invite my x-husband, or any of my former vanilla lovers to participate in any sexual encounter with me and Mr. SB? NO.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2762 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Only you can decide what's right or wrong. Personally I'd be weirded out, old BF are in the past for a reason and I'll let them stay there. I'd rather have my sweet memories of what "was" than live with a potentially disappointing encounter , but that's just me I spend my life looking forward not back. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4105 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	What if it was her old b/f from High school ?? And her first love he got the cherry ! she looked him up on f/b with me bi her side not to have sex with just to see how he's doing ! but heres the thing in one one of his reply's he mentions how good she tasted ! we live about 4 hrs away from him , anyone think inviting him up for weekend wound be wrong or cool ???
Lewiston MI			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Actually, among our regular playmates are couples where the guy is one of T's former husbands/S.O.'s. It's not been a problem for us or their partners.
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (23 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"And some of us really do retain strong positive feelings for former loves and "Exes", however you define it. " I'm very happy you have strong positive feelings for your ex but that sums up the exact reason I feel it is a horrible idea. Knowing you had strong feelings for you ex is a damn good reason why she shouldn't be invited to your bed with your current wife/girl friend. In my opinion. All good for YOU but frankly a really shitty spot to potentially put your current partner in . Frankly if Mr Sav had a "fantasy " of seeing me with any of his Ex partners or enjoying the 2 of at the same time he can masturbate to his hearts content visualizing it but the only place she is welcome in my bed, is in his mind....and I don't want to know about it. I think it would be pretty self serving , selfish and disrespectful to your current partner. I would never disrespect Mr Sav intentionally and nor would I expect him share a bed with a past lover, husband or boy friend. The word tacky comes to mind . If the only way I would consent to a 3 some for "comfort level" is by involving my ex I'd think I wasn't ready for the LS . I don't expect,want or need Mr Sav to"hate" or even dislike any women from his past, in fact I admire the fact that he has some very fond memories of the times he has share with them. If he "hated" them all and thought they were all bitches or spoke ill of them all etc I'd never have dated him in the first place. I do believe 2 perfectly wonderful people can simply make a bad relationship and sometimes no one is at fault but that doesn't mean I would welcome anyone of them in my bed again. What's next brothers/ sisters/cousins all in the name of getting laid? Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4105 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If you cherish your current relationship, it sure seems like a bad idea.
Williamsburg VA			Username hidden (31 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We had kids together, so from our divorce 13 years ago til today we have tried and still maintain a positive relationship with each other. Initially it was positive to the point of occasional "sex benefits" for a almost a year until the time we began to meet others and "moved on". However, while the thought of having a former sex partner (friend/hubby/bf) that knows what you like sexually, joining in with you and your current partner may be a great fantasy for some people, but it's not for me at all. Anyhow, my Xhubby remarried and I am pretty sure his very vanilla wife would seriously object to it:)
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2762 post)

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