Do people even read your profile: Swingers Discussion 1971971051

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TOPIC: Do people even read your profile

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User Details are only visible to members.	I always read profiles completely. Usually I find that couples do not want to be contacted out-of-the-blue by single males, so I don't bug them.
Rockford IL			Username hidden (21 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If you skim then dont be surprised when you get no response.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1853 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I like emails to be a bit more specific than just the "Hi, I read your profile, I'm etc etc" Point out something. If you can make me laugh, you're probably 80% there. I like wit, intelligence, a bit of cockiness/confidence, and something that makes you stand out a bit, and/or a sincere compliment. Someone today in an email complimented the way my hair frames my face, said it looked nice. That person got a reply back asap. That wasn't the only thing, but when an email is very generic/boring, I'll let it sit for a while before replying back. Here is the last part of our profile. I can usually tell if a single male has read it: SINGLE GUYS: if you have respected us enough to take the time to read through the whole profile, we are sometimes interested, but only if you are patient and have a good rapport with her husband. Be a gentleman online and confident in the bedroom. Do not expect an instant gratification meeting tonight, and no whiny, desperate men. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6065 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A bit of a guy's perspective might shed some light here. While this account is our couples profile, I also maintain a single profile. First, let me say that I do usually take the time to read the profile. However, it can be very time consuming and I have been known to skim. If I see anything that makes me think there might be a bit of mutual interest, I will fire off an email. Now, the vast majority of these are met with no response. So the incentive to read carefully is limited. Now, extrapolating from this, a lot of guys might just fire off emails basically carpet bombing for responses. If they get a hit, then they hope to build from there?
Redmond WA			Username hidden (21 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Cum4meagain, I am very flattered by your kind comments. Thank you very much! You know I had to check out your profile and certificates as well... And I very much enjoyed the vivid picture painted by you in my mind!
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1937 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	TotalBabe, You really hit the nail on the head with lots of positive comments. I couldn’t help but go to your profile, and read more of the same … very positive and well written. Everything you write is refreshing. Your certs are equally complimentary of you. Good job!
Chester NJ			Username hidden (241 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Kind... what you said is so true, Back in the day when we first got in to the lifestyle, You had to go to the seediest part of town buy a magazine,read the ads, then you had to write a real letter, on real paper, put it in a real envelope, put a real stamp on it, go to the post office an mail it. Then you had to wait sometime weeks for a reply. Yes it was a lot of work and it was slow, and yes technology has come a long way... But in those days We met 4 out of 5 couples that we wrote to and had a great time and play with every couple we met with. Just goes to show that easier isn't always better.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2201 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We read and reread every profile before we contact or reply. We make sure we match as close a possible what they are looking for and that they are what we are looking for. We have been doing this a long, long time,and passed the kids in the candy shop phase a long time ago. add that to the fact that we enjoy our time alone together so much more than we enjoy playing with others, IF we are going to take time to go out and play there needs to be a high possibility that we are going to find what we are looking for and just skimming a profile and perving pics won't accomplish that.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2201 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Babe. You said it. I work as a salesman. In business I try to learn as much as I can about who Im going to contact before I contact them. Then I use that information to get in the door and become friends. Once that happens, the sale is easy. Everyone would buy from a friend before they would someone who just called and left a phone number. No different in this game. We do all the research for you. We tell you about us in the profile, we tell you want we are "looking to buy" On a daily basis we get emails from guys who "have the product in stock" and we want to buy it. But it would be like me walking in someones office, throwing my card on their desk and saying....."Here, buy this" The customer doesnt know what color it is, what the description is, whether or not it will work for them, or have much of a clue of what Im selling. Yet I tell them, here, buy it NOW. Whats different than when we get a profile with no pics, a description that is different than what we want and a short one line "Hey, shes hot, lets meet"? There is nothing there to grab our attention. Start off with saying. Hi. I read your profile. Then add in some key points that we hit on in our profile...... Im John, 28 and bi curious. I live locally and would be interested in meeting a couple to explore some fun with. Im available nights and weekends to meet and would be happy to grab a drink and see if we all like eachother. Just to let you know, Im new at this so if we could chat a little bit online before we meet to calm my jitters, I would appreciate it. I dont want to rush very quick and get cold feet at the last minute. Attached are some pics of me (face) My chat name is xxxxxxx I look forward to hearing back from you guys. Now we would respond to an email like that 100% of the time. Even if someone isnt a perfect match, many times we have bent our "requirements" because even though they werent exactly what we had in mind, they came across as real and fun. So a guy thats a couple years out of our age range.....Or "straight but curious" or maybe not the perfect underwear model.......They would not be treated rudely or automatically declined. But they have to sell us.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Many people do not read my profile and it is pretty easy to tell. I mean, I get bombarded with emails from single guys, free member, no pictures and all they say is "wanna chat". I want to see a picture of your face (emphasis on "face", I am not impressed with the close-ups of your dick!) and I do not chat. Or these texting language emails that I just can't seem to be able to decipher sometimes. I did try to describe all my preferences in my profile, what I want as far as initial contact, pictures, meeting. I even had a pet-peeve section at one point. But that made my profile way too long, it sounded bitchy and I did not like that. So I shortened it a little bit and I tried to make it sound positive. OK, so I am content with my profile now, but that does not mean that people read it. In general, I am finding myself declining most invitations because I am simply not turned on by the first impression the sender gives out. Granted, while online, the perception is limited. My decision is based on one email, profile description and pictures, if any. Not much to go by. Sure I might be missing on some great folks. But that's why it is crucial to make good first impression! You get only one chance. And since internet communication is missing many facets of interaction that you get to utilize while face to face, it is very important to make the best use of those limited tools you have at your disposal. Sadly, many people don't do that. And some of them might have short attention span, who knows? Some might be avid texters who forgot how to use real words. For me, the bottom line is: I am turned on the most when I can tell that the sender paid attention to my profile and he/she actively uses the info to appear to all my senses and to stimulate me on all possible levels.
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1937 post)

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