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The original poster seems to have bailed on this one. But on the surface it appeared he got cold feet and his wife was ready jump in. So he found any excuse to put the brakes on the mfm. To me it was a small lie. Not a dealbreaker for us. In my original reply, I was talking about the more serious lies such as claiming to be single while being married. Or the ever popular"I knowI live far away, but I can travel anytime. Open your pics please". Then you find out they are unable to travel or meet at all. These seem to be the most common lies we encounter. Which is why we don't really bother anymore with single guys unless they are real close to us. But 35 miles is close enough.

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Plenty people change zipcodes to protect themselves from family and vanilla friends cruisin the site.. that's also why most don't show there face in a public pic,, that's just privacy not a lie...

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That's my point Qua, a lot of members use different zip codes and alter other small details to protect their identity. Hell most blur their faces and no one says that is dishonest.

Youngstown OH
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We don't post our exact zip code at either of our homes. When we get to know people to the point of trusting and playing we share more. It's not dishonesty, it's being safe.

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LOL@John

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Not trying to start anything with you but do you think posting weight as 0 is a lie? The point being, where do you draw the line on what is simply no ones business (weight, adress, zip code) and what is actually deception?

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I agree with nsainpa99.I'm LMAO recalling the lies I've heard from some of the single males and even some of married one on this site.Hence the reason i keep my circle of real friends here very small.

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Not defensive at all, simply pointing out the hypocrisy of many posters here. There is a tacit approval for couples to strain the truth to protect themselves but a SM doing the same thing is a liar. I don't do double standards. Respect me, I respect you. Simple as that.

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Nick I think you mistook my post, Someone else in this thread made it seem as though single males lies were to be expected. I just pointed out the double standard of accepting, expecting this from single males when we would not from a couple.

I did state that if he lied about something minor, He would lie about something major. After all "HE" was the subject of the post. Why did you suddenly get so defensive?

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I've been lying all this time also, I'm really Straight :)

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