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Wanna, I was just reading through the entire thread and feeling badly about highjacking it until I realized that the OP flew the coop. Bottom line, people lie. maybe single guys do it more than married guys or couples. I don't know. I find that lying is too difficult because one becomes two and then, they multiply like wabbits. Too hard to remember unless you're a sociopath. So, maybe the OP got cold feet, or maybe the SM they we're taking home got squirrelly. Who knows.

Ok, back off-topic...It's been too long since I was last in Hawaii and would love to visit. Just need to figure out ow to round out the quartet...

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@bridgetender - LOL! Yup...we don't plan on going to your neck of the woods anytime soon, so..... And just an fyi....our/my dance card is pretty darn empty most of the time. :)

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Wanna, but I assume that still means I need to show up in HI in even numbers to get on your dance card, no? ;-)

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We've found that waayyy more couples lie than single males. They'll lie about age, height, weight, sexual skills, etc, etc. Yuck.

The (few) single males we have had contact with have matched their profile to a "T" and have been wonderful guys.

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People lie about weight, height, age. You don't always know until you meet. They lie about marital status, or "permission to play alone". You don't always know until you meet. Folks lie about likes, dislikes, use of condoms, hair color, etc. You don't always know until you meet.

On the internet you can say anything. In person it's harder to avoid the truth. Cause in person your voice inflection and body language gives away the truth.

Cause some single (and some married) men will do anything, say anything, to get laid.

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I was merely pointing out that some would consider posting an inaccurate weight a lie as a way of explaining that not all "lies" are equal. I was not trying to offend you and apologize if I did.

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Nic I'll assume you were addressing me. If you read my profile I give my dress size(14-16). I'm above average height 5'9".

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Nic I'll assume you were addressing me. If you read my profile I give my dress size(14-16). I'm above average height 5'9".

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I agree

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I agree with your assesment nsainpa99 and asked that question directly. There is no shame in having cold feet, for some couples it takes time for both to work up the nerve to follow throgh. The fantasy is SO hot and then the reality sinks in as you are about to see your wife with another guy for the first time.

In any case, I think we can all agree that small details aren't really lies and cold feet or gut instinct are both perfectly legit reasons to put on the brakes.

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