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by the time I get around to playing with anybody I know them pertty well,and they know me,in 9 months I have met one person,it did not go well,no bodys fault,just wan't right thats all......BS

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LOL, it is almost that time of year :) And, thank you!

I don't think your posts sounded like you were bitching. Let's face it, you will definitely come across rude people, flaky people, fakes...and the list goes on! We have had great experiences and some really, really bad experiences! BUT, we have learned from every single experience. I agree witih you that there's no reason why couples should ever be rude or treat SMs like they're second class citizens. Inexcusable. When you read a profile, if it gives off that kind of vibe, thank your lucky stars! I figure a profile like that just makes it easier for me to skip right over them :)

Do hope you're having fun and you meet some great people ~~ best wishes!

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Hey Martyr, welcome to the forums :) You're right as far as the closeted bi-thing...on one hand I sympathize with guys who are afraid to be open about who they really are, but on the other hand the dishonesty bothers me.

House ~~ For us, we've never had any problems with SM's. They've always been polite, respectful, no *bad* surprises. Couples? Boy do we have some stories, LOL! Very hot pic, BTW :)

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HoF, there are assholes EVERYWHERE.

I think we put ourselves out a bit more in the LS than in regular life and it just compounds the BS.

We enjoy the company of single males and so far (knock on wood) the good times have far and away outnumbered the bad.

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easy deb easy,don't get your panties in a wad,although I would like to see that in person.lol..BS

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Did they open their pictures for you?

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Yes, that does seem to be a problem. Most of the mail/Im I get is that.

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Luvrman, I have had couples ask for pics and never hear anything after also. I just assumed the female wasn't physically attracted to me. But a couple that I play with told me its probably just a fake. Now I feel so used, lol!

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"I'm cool with men contacting, because I have come to find out that couples seem to prefer it that way. He is trying to get a feel for me before I talk to his wife that's fine. But I don't like it when they ask if I'm bi or at least willing. My profile says straight for a reason." ----------------

Agreed. I appreciate the screening process as it helps insure we're not wasting each others time. Speaking of wasting time, I also experience repeated requests from certain 'couples' to open pics, and nothing else comes from it. As was said earlier, there is plenty of porn online.

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I imagine it must suck for serious single men as well. We're no strangers to complaining about them ourselves.

We're one of those couples that wants to meet for a drink in public first and then decide if we all click. If we get to the point we are meeting at all, we have already likely decided we are going to play. But in the past, meeting in too intimate of a setting, we have encountered guys who are not who they say they are online. Or when we meet in person, the connection is not there.

For that reason we tell guys who are a distance away that we;re not interested.

If I were playing as a serious single guy, I wouldnt want to drive 3 hours to meet at a bar, not be sure they will show, and then, not be sure that something is going to happen. Sorry. Im not driving that far to have a beer and get a "lets set something up for in a couple weeks"

So we avoid that altogether. Yet guys keep pushing and pushing. And we have met guys from far away who we just werent feeling and at that point didnt feel bad that they drove 200 miles for a beer.

I feel for some single guys lately too. For some reason, this was never a problem in the past, we have been getting flooded with "couples" that are just single men.

Profiles that say theyre a couple, have 20 pics of her, and none of him. Yet they either "broke up recently" or he wants to try bi activity without her knowing. Or the famous "Im trying to talk her into it"

So we'll spend a day talking to someone we think is a couple only to have that sprung on us.

We want single guys. Thats our main focus here. So if youre a single guy make a single profile. Messaging us from a couple profile just says youre a liar upfront and is an instant NO.

Sorry to hear youre having those troubles since you seem to be an exception to most guys here.

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