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I have a real simple approach to drunks. If you are drunk, you don't get to play with Uriah. He has too many better looking, sober people who want to play with him.

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holly, I don't drink at all either, and like you, I really like swinging!

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I dont drink at all... and upon realizing this, a man said to me "You must really like swinging." I'm confused and say "Huh?" (as his comment seemed to come out of nowhere to me...) His response "Because you do this sober." lol

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"If you have to be "lit-up" to play then maybe you are in it for the wrong reasons."

Bingo.

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Dinner/drinks is almost always our first meeting.

That being said, over-indulgence does not make for a good first meeting. If you have to be "lit-up" to play then maybe you are in it for the wrong reasons.

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Mondiue, it seems that drinking and meeting go hand in hand, which I'm not opposed to. I haven't met anyone without alcohol being involved. But I often meet my vanilla friends for drinks, so I don't notice it.l

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Now I must readily admit that I am a man of malevolent appearance and brutal countenance. Many believe I've the ritual scarring of that singer, Seal. I am blacker in hue than most living things and Africans from Niger to Zulu approach me speaking in their native tongues but with the same question, "Is this your spear?"

But it must be more than mere appearance that causes so often the name of action to be cut short because the wife who "needs a few to loosen up" is sloshed beyond all hope before I've even arrived.

Does this happen to you other single guys or am I signal in enducing a terror not to be faced sober?

A couple I've seen before in my more monied past opted to meet at a hotel on learning I'd gone to man-cave from McMansion. They were heading to a bar first to "get her game on" as they knew I do not drink. Later, he texted me the room number and I arrived to find the room dark and no signs of life. I walked away puzzled trying to raise them by phone when a horn signalling in the parking lot caught my attention.

He was there but she was lying prone and well-toasted in the reclined bucket seat. He could not budge her. Indeed, he was beyond driving anywhere himself for that matter. He insisted she'd be okay, but as she is literally a lightweight of about 100lbs, I was writng off the evening and figured we'd just let her sleep it off and have a go in the morning. As it was the only option, I fireman carried her to the room.

I caught a huge break. She must have been imbibing Buck-U-Uppo Tonic as she awoke full of fire and lust not more than 30 minutes later as I sat shooting the breeze with hubby.

But under normal let's meet at a bar circumstances this would have been a Plan B evening.

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by the time I get around to playing with anybody I know them pertty well,and they know me,in 9 months I have met one person,it did not go well,no bodys fault,just wan't right thats all......BS

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LOL, it is almost that time of year :) And, thank you!

I don't think your posts sounded like you were bitching. Let's face it, you will definitely come across rude people, flaky people, fakes...and the list goes on! We have had great experiences and some really, really bad experiences! BUT, we have learned from every single experience. I agree witih you that there's no reason why couples should ever be rude or treat SMs like they're second class citizens. Inexcusable. When you read a profile, if it gives off that kind of vibe, thank your lucky stars! I figure a profile like that just makes it easier for me to skip right over them :)

Do hope you're having fun and you meet some great people ~~ best wishes!

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Hey Martyr, welcome to the forums :) You're right as far as the closeted bi-thing...on one hand I sympathize with guys who are afraid to be open about who they really are, but on the other hand the dishonesty bothers me.

House ~~ For us, we've never had any problems with SM's. They've always been polite, respectful, no *bad* surprises. Couples? Boy do we have some stories, LOL! Very hot pic, BTW :)

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