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User Details are only visible to members.	LOL Rdy....sorry I let the cat out out the bag. I am the only one who posts in the forums and only I respond to emails. Mr Sav can and does spend hours pouring over photos and hypothetically reading profiles (lol) but he leaves it entirely me to handle who we will or will not communicate with. Don't get me wrong he will point out a profile for me to check and he surely would tell me no way (hasn't happened yet) should he disapprove of a choice but he is confident I pick better for him and us than he might . He will read a profile and miss some critical factor (damn those distracting hot photos) . I read between the lines, listen for undertones and make thoroughly sure we meet any listed preferences and they meet all of ours....no exceptions! He does read emails before me sometimes and we do discuss some of them , laugh at others and shake our heads and many more. I have found in my years of swinging that the couples we get along best with are ones where the female takes and active part in the writing of the profile ( I can tell ) , the selection of photos (yup definitely can tell lol) and although may not be the one to contact us initially communicates via email and then on the phone. We rarely meet any couple without my having spoke to the female half. It is critical she and I have some sort of connection for lack of a better word. If I don't like her she can not and will not play with Mr Sav , her hubby could be Mr Adonis and as sweet as sugar but I refuse to share Mr Sav with a women I dislike for ANY reason .....yup I'm a bitch like that. In the case of the party, I didn't follow my own guidelines because it was a party, not a private meeting but lesson learned. We no longer waste much time communicating by email or IM , a few emails, a phone chat and we're ready to meet. I no longer invest my time in getting to "know" people via the internet. .....it make sit that much harder to meet and within seconds KNOW oh HELL No lol. Local Single men? I admit we really do not want to know them at all and nor do we want them to know much of us. It's about sex, not a relationship. I don't need them to stroke my ego with compliments, woo me with words or flirt with me for weeks . I prefer a much more spontaneous attraction , dazzle me and do me and don't make it personal. Single females? We've yet to meet a single female in our area that was even slightly sane ( Mr Sav's words ) but than we haven't really looked beyond those we run into at parties . They're not really our agenda and most of them want much more than we would offer. Mr Sav isn't investing time in dazzling them , we aren't going to spoil her rotten ( only in bed lol) and we aren't having a deep bonding meaningful connection so we really have nothing much to offer her lol. I can not imagine being the type of wife that would not take an active role in my own sexuality and pleasures. If it works for some , have at it but I know without question "we" would never ever get along lol. I like my women like my men...strong and smart. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4001 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs SAV BINGO BINGO BINGO!!!! We have found that with a lot of couples. She is just going along with whatever he is doing. Ive written before that we try to webcam before we meet. Thats the very reason. To see who is really behind the profile. We used to not cam ourselves and got a little insulted that people insisted on it. Now it makes sense. I (Joe) am the only one active on the forums. My wife doesnt come on at all. However when it involves using the site for "real" we both always do it together. There are 57 emails blinking in the corner right now. Even though I want to.....lol I dont click on them. Its better when everything is done as a couple. Other couples arent like that. We've gone to plenty of G-rated dinners where the woman had no idea who she was meeting. And sometimes I think had no idea WHY she was meeting us.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Just got a very pushy email from a young single male, obviously DIDN'T read our profile. Sigh. Been here since 2010 and no certs (wonder why). Polite email sent back: "Obviously you didn't read our profile. Good luck" and then blocked him. - h
Las Vegas NV			Username hidden (830 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	fun can you imagine how wise he will be when he is as old as you are.....BS
Kingston TN			Username hidden (1912 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Kurt, The sounds wretched ! We had that happen to us . conversed with the male half for several weeks before we were scheduled to attend a Party they were also attending. He was insistent we start the party in their room before party time. We declined. Later in the evening I met the wife in the ladies room, introduced myself and she had this blank look on her face. So I tell her we'd been chatting with her husband, again blank look, I go so far as to say he even invited us to your room pre party and no reaction. She finally said "I am so sorry, I have no idea who he talks to or makes arrangements with, I just do as he says. I could not remove myself fast enough.....dodge bullet for sure. I can not for the life of me understand any women being cool with that arrangement and found it down right frightening. Freaked me out and now we avoid them like the plague . Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4001 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wise beyond your years.
Attica NY			Username hidden (8604 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	EZ1, that happens quiet often. I always like to meet a couple at a M&G or at a swingers club. In the alternitive I like to make phone contact when both are available together fairly early in our communications. If I can't talk to the wife early on to gauge her preferences, it ain't happening and a sorry pal and contact me when she is ready to meet some one. That's one reason I don't ever talk to the male half and he wants me to suduce his wife at a bar after he gets her half in the bag. Sorry, but that ain't happening either.
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9669 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yes, nice write up, C4MA. And, now, back to our regularly scheduled programming.... Had been talking with the male half of a couple for several weeks about coming over for a visit. Repeated inquiries as to if his bride was in the loop on things and was comfortable with what we were talking about were met with constant reassurance. Finally communicated with the lady yesterday. This all seemed relatively new to her and, quite frankly, she was not favorable to the notion. She seemed surprised, and unpleasantly so. I did not like this and felt bad for her. Communication is so important, in so many walks of life, but especially here. We wished each other well and terminated our communications. I can only imagine how the conversation at dinner went that evening.
Daniels MD			Username hidden (336 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	To South Vegas and DEFL: Thanks for the compliment on my profile. I’m a ‘glass is half full’ person, focusing on what I want and the type of playmates I am looking for. By the way, your profiles are impressive as well. Could we have had the same English professor at some point?
Chester NJ			Username hidden (240 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The search filter is a handy little tool. I wish they would apply it to the events page as well. Nothing fancy, just a check mark next to events which welcome RSVP's from single males. That would be really nice.
Rockford IL			Username hidden (5 post)

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