CHEATING MEN Why dont you like them: Swingers Discussion 1444991041

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User Details are only visible to members.	....what may not be an option?
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	that would depend on what they got caught doing and it may not be an option.
Vicksburg MS			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	-My experience is that divorce was a dictatorship. It was imposed. No discussion. No options. While one partner may decide "I want a divorce," the other partner has SOME say in the proceedings. They can contest the divorce, negotiate for property or visitation rights or try to arrange some reconciliation. They obviously aren't required, and may decide fighting the divorce isn't worth it, but that's still their option. If there were no discussion or no options, there wouldn't be any divorce attorneys and half of the gossip magazines would be empty of content. In a cheating situation, the cheating partner controls everything. The other person involved doesn't get a say because they are usually completely in the dark.
Columbia MD			Username hidden (1272 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"My experience is that divorce was a dictatorship. It was imposed. No discussion. No options. " and ........ "I am curious. Why get divorced rather than cheat? Perhaps the answer lies in the question Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4447 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	-If cheating is disrespecting the vows, what is divorce doing? Divorce is a bilateral decision/acknowledgment that the marriage (and the vows) are no longer working. Both parties may not necessarily agree or like it, but they at least have some input in to what is going on. If someone is cheating, they are making all of those decisions and imposing them on the other person without giving them any say in the matter. Kind of like the difference between a democracy and a dictatorship.
Columbia MD			Username hidden (1272 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ouch! Did she find out her husband was meeting with a couple which included a bi-curious male?
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Joey, I applaud your candor, even if I disagree with some of your conclusions.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11420 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am going to have to google this word, but I'm pretty sure I am flummoxed as well. lol What I really don't understand Joey is, If you are this honest now, why would you become dishonest later? What I hear you saying is... You have a very high sex drive and very much enjoy having sex with others, so much so, you would not want to be in a monogamous marriage... and found a woman who felt the same way. Good for you I say.... But if she, for any reason, changes her mind in the future (about either of you swinging) ...why would you cheat? If you value your sex life more than you value your relationship ....Why wouldn't you choose freedom to do what you want, ...before you would cheat? Not for nothing, since she knows you better than we, pretty sure she'll know you couldn't stay monogamous, and altho I think that is sad, it sounds like that is your truth. ...why not just stick to it??
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I thought a solid marriage is based on the vows... " Remember those are just words...... to some anyway. Something to really ponder.
Burlingham NY			Username hidden (9264 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	So in essence you are saying that if your wife was to gain weight or you met a hotter chick you would "cheat" on her. Wow .... I thought a solid marriage is based on the vows... you know better or worse? Thank God my husband does not have your mindset. I would have to castrate him.
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

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