CHEATING MEN Why dont you like them: Swingers Discussion 1444991031

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User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome to the forums SexyGa! Um, I'm not sure what your point is really. I'm sorry you experienced that and happy you guys worked it out, ...but are you defending a cheating husband?
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Do you ever get that funny feeling that something isn't quite right?
San Quentin CA			Username hidden (8604 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ok, The only reason I am even replying to this is because I feel I'm straddling the fence on the subject. We have been married for about 6 years. About 2 years ago I found out he was cheating. Not only cheating, but had an account here. And was meeting couples as a single male. At that time...it was devastating. He NEVER once asked that he was interested in 3somes, 4somes, or even seeing me with a female. So AT THAT time...it was cheating.. I would have been ALL for it, as I am now. But he never asked. He just...DID. SO, he was prolly one of those "single guys" cheating on his wife. Can't be "on call" whenever you feel like it. Find someone else is all I can say. A married man or someone that has resposibilities at home is NOT ganna be at your beckon call. Sorry. Just like a girl. She can't just be there whenever you feel the tingle. ;) Don't knock single guys or single girls. I've been on BOTH sides of the fence. But most DO have someone or ppl to tend to whether they say they don't or you like it or not. Even when he came clean about it all, he told me details...even showed me the couples he met here. (profiles). He was very honest..anything I wanted to know he told me. He also added that "they" was way to persistant....wanted him to come when they wanted and when he couldn't (becuase of me) they got angry.. Sent him ugly messages.. tellling him if he didnt do what they said he would be cut off. Just cause you are having 3somes with your wife doesnt mean she has a pussy of gold. lol Pussy is a dima a dozen my friend. Thats why he cut THEM off. BY himself! I didn't find out about all this until a year later! lol (If he had only asked me)...;) Thats why we are here now.
Cordele GA			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LMFAO ..... wow
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Aavandwin very well put!!!!!
Covington LA			Username hidden (115 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	-I posed a question. Therefore I am a married cheater! Wow! Butterfly, maybe you should read back through these threads. Usually, when a new single male starts raising questions about cheating (and then DELETING them), it's usually a good sign that they ARE cheating. You do yourself no favor by immediately jumping in to such a controversial topic and then trying to cover your tracks by removing your posts. -the morning after we got married, that it wasn't going to work out. I didn't have time to cheat. I didn't get caught at anything. She just changed her mind. I'm very sorry to hear that. I'm certain it must have been devastating. It puts some of your answers about divorce in perspective.
Columbia MD			Username hidden (1270 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Butterfly I made no assumption you were married or cheating. The TOPIC is CHEATING and my comments reflect my thoughts about CHEATERS. My reference and use of the word YOU should be clarified to read YOU who are CHEATING. Don't personalize it please. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4069 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	-The only issue was to stay married or get divorced. The issue was raised with the judge. Right... that's the "contested" part. Unless there are extraordinary extenuating circumstances, both parties have the opportunity to have their say in front of the judge and the judge made a decision. - Are the cheaters seeking anything different? Uh... yeah. It's the difference between "Hey, can I borrow your car?" and "I'll just take this thing for a joy ride. Nobody will know the difference as long as I don't get caught." -Does anybody ask the person who is cheating for a reason or justification? Would it matter? Why should it matter? If cheating ended in divorce, than the cheater probably expected that up front. They wanted the freedom to cheat AND the security and benefits of a marriage. They can't have it both ways. -Isn't every one on here outside the mainstream of society? Though there are a few who are proud enough, well adjusted enough, rich enough that they can show their face and flaunt to all comers that I (we) are swingers; what we represent isn't accepted by the society of our nation as a whole. Yet many draw the line at cheaters. Why? Ah, yes... the boring old "swingers are no better than cheaters because we're all breaking society's rule, so quit picking on cheaters" argument. Here's our reason. I don't lie to my wife and she doesn't lie to me. We came to the lifestyle after discussion and agreement. We hurt no one and we respect each other in the decisions we make in the lifestyle. Cheaters, by definition, are lying to their partners (either actively or passively). They have decided that their sexual gratification is more important than being honest with their partner, and are they willing to risk hurting their partner (financially, socially and/or emotionally) for their own personal pleasure.
Columbia MD			Username hidden (1270 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Why is it a requirement to be married, divorced, widowed or single to be in the life style?" Married> A committed couple where both parties agree to the terms of the swinging relationship. Divorced > A free agent with no commitment , physical or emotional ties to another Widowed> A free agent with no commitment , physical or emotional ties to another Single> A free agent with no commitment , physical or emotional ties to another Cheater> A married person who of their own discretion seeks sex outside of the marriage thru lies . Seems pretty basic to me why one would draw "the line in the sand" You mention people expecting respect of others and I completely agree that respect is paramount but if you can not, will not or don't respect your partner why would I presume you'd have any respect for me, my partner or my relationship? You mention that no one asks WHY? Why would they? If your relationship is broken, fix it. If it's not fixable get out. Not that simple you say ? No one said commitment was simple. Cheating and Swinging are no synonymous, they are 2 distinctly different situations. Swinging involves open communication by all parties involved. Just because your wife is not there does no mean she is not part of the equation or should have no say and due to that simple fact you are not swinging you are cheating. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4069 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LOL...Best way to avoid the divorce ....don't cheat..LOL
Covington LA			Username hidden (115 post)

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