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TOPIC: CHEATING MEN - Why dont you like them

Created by: JOEY8199 Original Starting post for this thread:
We were talking about this tonight. The subject of cheating men contacting us to play. I have always had the attitude " Thats their problem" I dont believe in cheating myself but im not the marriage police so I didnt really care either way. My wife is pretty dead set against cheaters. To my surprise though......Its not for the reasons I would have thought. Being a woman I figured she was more sensitive to the act and that she wouldnt feel right because she knew there was a woman home being betrayed and she was a part of it. Thats a tiny part of it...... But mostly she is against a cheater for SELFISH REASONS...haha Not because they go against our morals or anything. They go against what we want from a guy. So the CONS to a cheater: ..Inability to be social in public ..Cannot really be "friends with benefits" ..They have to be discreet. So we cannot contact them freely whenever we want ..Minimal availability. ..Notoriously undependable. Either their wife comes home early or something ..We play late at night and they cant justify to their significant other why they are leaving the house at 11 pm ..They are discreet to the point of paranoia so god forbid you run into him in walmart or something hes gonna hide under a clothes rack. So the main reason is just that its a pain in the ass for us and too much drama to deal with where we just want simple play. What are your thoughts?

Created by: JOEY8199
Original Starting post for this thread:

We were talking about this tonight.   The subject of cheating men contacting us to play.

I have always had the attitude  " Thats their problem"   I dont believe in cheating myself but im not the marriage police so I didnt really care either way.

My wife is pretty dead set against cheaters.

To my surprise though......Its not for the reasons I would have thought.

Being a woman I figured she was more sensitive to the act and that she wouldnt feel right because she knew there was a woman home being betrayed and she was a part of it.

Thats a tiny part of it......

But mostly she is against a cheater for SELFISH REASONS...haha

Not because they go against our morals or anything.

They go against what we want from a guy.

So the CONS to a cheater:

..Inability to be social in public
..Cannot really be "friends with benefits"
..They have to be discreet.  So we cannot contact them freely whenever we want
..Minimal availability.
..Notoriously undependable.   Either their wife comes home early or something
..We play late at night and they cant justify to their significant other why they are leaving the house at 11 pm
..They are discreet to the point of paranoia so god forbid you run into him in walmart or something hes gonna hide under a clothes rack.

So the main reason is just that its a pain in the ass for us and too much drama to deal with where we just want simple play.

What are your thoughts?

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User Details are only visible to members.	IFlirtDoU2, GFandME, I like the way you think! :)
Knightdale NC			Username hidden (171 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We read a number of the posts and feel this way. We aren't the marriage police. We do enjoy meeting a business type guy for mfm in town on business. Married is OK too. Have we played with a guy cheating? Most likely yes. Did it hurt anything? Most likely no as he goes home to whatever state he was from and we all have a smile the day after
Plano TX			Username hidden (8 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	DEFLHRICPL "And it has never resulted in any drama or BS along the way?" not once for us yet other than a no show or two. but that has happened with single guys and girls too. no difference there.
Raleigh NC			Username hidden (756 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Good point, GFandME. Might I add that that most men who seek sex outside their marriage/relationship are not looking for love either. I don't know if the same thing can be said of most women who seek sex outside their marriage/relationship. I've met and had sex with married women and bi married men and swinging married couples as the male half of a couple and as a solo bi male and the dynamic is the same..we met for SEX, not LOVE and it was agreed upon before we met. For every couple who will not meet a solo man (cheating or not) for fun and sex, there are 20 couples who will.
Zebulon NC			Username hidden (55 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We were chatting with a single male and things were looking good for a meet....then he slipped on a comment and she caught it...yup, married & his wife doesn't know. So we cut that cord. Too bad, so sad, we don't help men cheat.
Las Vegas NV			Username hidden (247 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Good point, GFandME. Might I add that that most men who seek sex outside their marriage/relationship are not looking for love either. I don't know if the same thing can be said of most women who seek sex outside their marriage/relationship.
Zebulon NC			Username hidden (55 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	And it has never resulted in any drama or BS along the way?
Middletown DE			Username hidden (313 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We're not the marriage police, we have played with both married guys & married girls or girls with boyfriends in the past. We are not looking for love so in our opinion, the relationship status of the one we play with doesnt matter to us.
Raleigh NC			Username hidden (756 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks DELF, more to cum ;-D Oh and I will check out the wingman thread if it will make you happy S....
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (7821 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"it is tough being a wingman" Hey, y'all, there's a service being offered in another thread to help you with all sorts of wingmen foibles. It is a full service joint 'round here.
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