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Funcouple I'm sure you two are a nice couple overall and mean well but I have to agree with some of the other post that it is so full of negative thing from the first sentence to the last and I lost count of how many times you referred "we don't solo" in your profile. Sounds like a little jealously problem in the mix also. Not trying to offend you but you did ask for some advice and after reading a profile like that we would stay away to.

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Mrs. here. Ok just to clarify a few things. We don't expect anyone to be 100% into either of us from the get go. But we do hope that they are both interacting at least a little bit because sometimes it takes a little time to plan time away for us. We've gotten numerous messages from couples where it's the man contacting us but his wife "has a crazy work schedule" or doesn't use the computer much or sometimes plays but not always. I don't want or expect some HUGE connection, at least me personally wants to know the woman does exist and is a part of it. We've met a few couples where one seemed very into one of us and the other one was just going along or actually not sure about it. I think the thing that people are seeing is that Mr and I handle it different ways. He gets frustrated. I just get discouraged and lack the desire to put myself "all the way out there" time after time to be approachable and sincere. Only to have the man totally interested but the other half missing in action. We thought the SM or SF might resolve that, but as everyone has attested to, there are a plethora of SM offers. Oh well. Maybe we should rewrite our profile into rainbows and butterflies and gumdrops instead of honest, sincere and straightforward. I'm not being negative, I've just grown to say it like it is when it comes to all this.

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Couldn't even get thru your profile. Who would want to be with you?

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The profile still comes off as very hostile, and not just towards couples... SM's are probably just dismissing the tone as typical SM bashing and send a message anyway, while couples are avoiding what looks like a high probability of drama.

With such a huge laundry list of negativity, we'd be afraid of accidentally doing the wrong thing and setting you two off... not to mention, it seems that you require couples to be 100% into both of you right from the initial communications. I don't know about everyone else here, but we never go 100% in until we've met in person.

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It'sBeen: I think I can I think I can I think I can? -------------------------- Just don't call him the little engine...LOL

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This is why I always advise people to read their profiles out loud before submitting them. It really helps.

It'sBeen: I think I can I think I can I think I can?

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Mrs here. Like I said a while back, the forums have a lot of insight to offer. Other views and perspectives to consider. I'll leave the posting & comments to Mr.

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Not long ago, our profile had degraded - it was mostly comprised of edits we had made when someone had pissed us off. One day we stood back, read it, and realized it was outright hostile.

An attitude readjustment is necessary once in a while. At least they have been receptive to it.

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I guess that means you ignored what I originally wrote. Oh, well, your loss. You might want to take another look. ;-)

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Damn!! Had to read our own profile to catch that LMAO! :) thanks though

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