Are there any couples on SLS anymore: Swingers Discussion 2128271051

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Are there any couples on SLS anymore: Swingers Discussion 2128271051

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TOPIC: Are there any couples on SLS anymore

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User Details are only visible to members.	Sarcasm, I can appreciate. Sadly, it doesn't always translate to ASCII very well. Your profile does look much more approachable and friendly.
Modesto CA			Username hidden (133 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	your profile looks a lot better
Rohnert Park CA			Username hidden (59 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs. Fun here. I was the one who made the comment about rainbows & gumdrops, so in that respect the attitude and tone were mine entirely. I'm not an aggressive or easily aggitated person, though sarcastic from time to time. We have gone to 1 house party and enjoyed ourselves quite a bit. We run a 24/7 company so getting away has to be planned for, but can be accomplished. We haven't made it to a meet and greet as of yet. To answer the questions Rdy asked. Chris would probably be more concerned about missed oppurtunities to have sex with others. I'd rather have missed an oppurtunity than something that isn't pleasureable for us both (quality vs quantity). I wouldn't say I'd be relieved to take a break, it's more the continual weeding out and deception of people that takes the fun out of it. Yes I was in the lifestyle for a little while in a previous relationship. But I've found the majority of people I did know then (5 yrs ago) do not swing any longer either because they are no longer interested or because they are no longer together. Mr. Fun and I have had more LS experiences together than I ever had previously. I think he and I are on the same page as to what we are looking for, either from talking about it or from what did or didn't work in previous encounters. Yes I think Mr Fun gets frustrated that should I want to I could easily "cheat" and get offers from vanilla men on a regular basis. I've never cheated on anyone and that won't change. I knew more about the lifestyle and some of the potential pitfalls and pleasures than he did and know it's a patience and communicating thing. He didn't anticipate a lot of the deception from other people or trying to see if 4 people click. He is the one who thought that changing to SM or SF might make the process easier. I do appreciate most of what people have had to say. I completely gutted our profile until we can put something different together.
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Funcouple let me tell you. we are one of those couples where the guy(me) is always on the computer I do almost all the emails and I am pretty sure it says in our profile the Mrs works nights and weekends but when it finally gets down to an actual meeting you will talk with my wife on the phone. I also own my own business, I can play six degrees of separation with anybody I meet in our county and know someone they know. One couple we meet the hubby and I knew a lot( I mean a LOT) of the same people and the wife knew one of our close vanilla friends. We are both bi so it is even harder to meet couples, so we started hosting our own Meet & Greets. Get rid of the last part of your profile where it says "In Closing" you are not in court, making a business proposal, closing a business deal, or having a business meeting.
Rohnert Park CA			Username hidden (59 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It's a very rare person in the LS who hasn't been where you are, with the same exact frustrations, at some point in time... but I guess your situation is so unique and complex, that nobody could possibly be giving you good advice unless they live next door to you. If you feel I'm "picking you apart" by offering advice based off my own experience in the LS, consider it stopped. I certainly don't intend to add to your frustrations by trying to help you out, and I honestly have no reason to care about your woes, beyond trying to be a good "swing neighbor". I think the fact that you responded, and continue to respond, with aggressive language to the many people who suggested that your profile is too aggressive is a pretty telling sign that it might not just be the profile. Oh well, good luck. :)
Modesto CA			Username hidden (133 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Um, okay, but you do have a car, don't you? My area here in Wisconsin is excessively conservative, too, and we never play with locals but we have found some couples who either meet us at a hotel takeover or through this website. We have had playdates with couples in our home but also offered the option of meeting others at a hotel, midway between our houses. If you are willing to try a little harder to meet people, look on the calendar on the SLS home page. You can even change the location if, say, you wanted to find people who weren't from your area at all. Hell's bells, man, if Mr. Scandle and I can make it work at our age, then certainly you can, too.
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (6961 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If this helps things at all for people to understand our area and how conserative people are in our town and how protective we have to be. 9 Bars 11 churches 10,000 population word spreads really fast in our town. "did you hear what XXX couple did or does" community.. You find more out about yourself from others then you knew about yourself
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Funcouple, I agree with much of what everyone else has said here. Please don't discount it because everyone else is not from Wisconsin may not be in your age group or what you are exactly looking for. Those who have experience, no matter what the age, and are willing to share some of their wisdom are golden. Your profile doesn't currently say anything about visiting clubs, house parties, hotel takeovers, or meet n greets. I know they exist and are pretty popular in your area. Even if you go with the intent of just getting out for an evening with other sex-positive people, returning home to have sex only with your spouse, it will help get things started. There may be people there who want to get to know you better and vice versa. Phone numbers, or at the very least, SLS profile names, can be exchanged. Is this something you would consider doing?
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (6961 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Rdy2play123.. Here are my (Mr answers) I don't expect them to be exact but I think me and Mrs Fun have come to agreement on a few so with out further ado... Question 1 -> I would be upset at the missed ops, Mr's Fun was in the LS before we met each other so in a way I thought it would be easier for us to meet people but as I have learned in a small town (as we are business owners in a very public indstury) with a very conserative population Mr's fun has walked on egg shells when it comes to outsiders finding out what we do.. (Basically me and her never mentioned to anyone outside of SLS trying to find a "Date") Get it?? Question 2 -> Personally I was the one that prompted the change in SM (with Mr's Funs consent) She has had many -o- offers outside of SLS. from SM to meet for a "date". Just doing daily things (going to the gas station, grocery store etc) As I like to say women in our town are "slim pickings" for the "average" male. So we both chose to change it here to see what "class" of SM we would get OR the thought that someone might be in a couple looking to do SM/SF. Kind of a swap and share. Question 3 -> Refer to Question 1 answer LOL.. Very conserative community, we haven't reached out to people outside of the site. We are not shy or ashamed of what we do, just protective of it..
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Guess we didn't expect so many people to pick the profile apart . Yes there were some changes that obviously needed to be changed but it wasn't our message to put people off. We wrote our profile out of experiences and real life situations. We didn't write it to say "Look at us, Oh please chose us" We tried the sweet & outgoing then this one after a few experiences and the funny thing is when we did do the sweet outgoing and overly friendly profile it had us in the same place as we are now. We have both noticed the majority of the replys most couples / SM are either on the East coast or further south. I think the Midwest and north is very conserative and reserved.
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

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