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TOPIC: Are sloppy seconds similar to gay sex
Created by: bss954
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Last night my wife and I were talking about the guy that she's fucked 5 times. He lives 400 miles away, however he has family here and visits often. She said she was glad he had gone home because she didn't want to see him again. She said he was scum because he cheats on his wife.

Then she said "You might be scum too if you go out with the guys". I asked her what she meant, and she said "You like sloppy seconds, that's basically the same as gay sex".

OUCH!! I had never considered sloppy seconds to be even slightly related to gay sex. I can see where she's coming from, I'm sticking my dick into a pussy filled with some other man's cum.

She could see I was upset with her comment, so she said "I was just kidding and joking with you". Besides, there's nothing wrong with gay sex.

My question -- Are sloppy seconds similar to gay sex?

Thanks, everyone for putting up with me.

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No-I know we didn't plan anything, I was using "blow off" in regards to an opportunity I had to meet up with you. If I remember, I was kind of acting up a little online, I was probably being a bit too boisterous and crazy. I wasn't blaming you just now, I'm just prodding you, rankling you a bit for effect. I didn't mean anything by it at all.

Transgender and sexual orientation are 2 different things. But there is some common ground as both are associated with self-identity and invite the way to vocabulary distortion and perversion of the language.

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Does that include a hot TG?

;-D

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If a hottie wants to blow me she can label it however she wants.

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Spanky- Blowing you off implies that J and I flaked on a set meeting with you. As we did not arrange such a meeting at all, I certainly hope it was not your intention to imply any such thing.

Transgendered people make a lot folks uncomfortable. I get that. My husband and I agree to disagree on that very subject. However, being transgendered should not be confused with sexual orientation.

Sls gives us three options for sexual orientation. Many would argue that this doesn't tell the whole story for some individuals. My sole point in this thread is that no one but the person in question can explain the nuances of his or sexuality. There are some common labels that we all try to shoehorn into to make life tidier. I get to choose for me and you get to choose for you.

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Of coarse you are.

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Exactly, seduction, you're totally getting my point.

Jandscinciny--Right, I get it, but then transgendered people (which sort of crowds the scope of sexual orientation) will then say that they're male because of their psychology and I'm just not buying it. Sorry, "pregnant man", your expulsing a baby out of your puss, that's a little too feminine to qualify you to be a man. And by the way, jandscin, you had your chance a few months ago for an assertive male (ehhemmm) but you blew me off because I think I was getting on your nerves that day,lol. I'll have to be a little less course and more restrained and debonair the next time I mozy on down to Cincinnati.

Kinddrag-that's okay, call me dipshit (lovingly of course). I'm on a use language correctly tear.

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I do.

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I rather prefer an assertive man. Know any?

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There is never a need to assert one's sexuality.

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*earlier I read the statement about how people can define themselves however they want. I have to disagree with this*

However, the post was in the context of sexual orientation and I stand by my assertion that it is up to me and, me alone, to "label" where I fall on a spectrum of gay-bi-straight. It is also up to me to communicate that label and its meaning clearly when the need arises.

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