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Oh, it is very easy to find a single male, IF you'll settle for anyone with a cock!!! I am much more selective & have much higher standards, as do most women on here. I have only a couple of single men that I see regularly. I've met numerous others which I've enjoyed, but for one reason or another won't see again.

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trust me its not easier.

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"I really wish people would quit acting like it is so much easier to find a single male then anything else you might be looking for in the swing world. It really isn't as easy as some might think unless your just into fucking anyone, which I'm not. "

Finding chemistry is always difficult no matter what or who you seek , the only reason I'd suggest it is "easier" is that the volume of "men" ,married or singles is far greater than that of a single female or the odds of finding a couple where 4 people connect. Pure mathematics. Higher volume means more options and more selections......it also means more undesirables and bad apples too lol.

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If I understand your 2nd post, you have tried to contact him since then and he has not been responsive to that attempt. If that is a correct interpertation, in my opinion you already have your answer, he is not interested. For whatever reason he has chosen to not respond, and it may not be socially polite -- but you should not attempt any further contact. Let him come to you if he becomes interested again. Mrs. Sav is likely spot on, as usual.

There are people on the website who may equate your continued attempts to contact him as "pushy".


 
 
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while I do agree with Mrs Sav and Scandle on the stop obsessing over him part. I really wish people would quit acting like it is so much easier to find a single male then anything else you might be looking for in the swing world. It really isn't as easy as some might think unless your just into fucking anyone, which I'm not. To find one you have really hot chemistry with and want to fuck again is even harder. Or at least it is here where I live.

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I have to second Mrs. Sav's advice. He already knows how you feel, he already knows how to contact you, and if he doesn't want to get together again for any of the reasons mentioned, then you pursuing him will only come across in a negative way. Cherish the memories, weave them into your fantasies of what you would like to do with him if you saw him again, but let go of trying to get him to come back. He will make it back to your bed ON HIS OWN if he wants to.

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LookingFor,

I'd suggest if you haven't heard from him you're hearing his message loud and clear. Perhaps he didn't have the great time you did for whatever reason, perhaps he is a "been there done that " kinda guy and is moving along, perhaps you scared him or he was in fact troubled by your "teasing" he left without seeing you again. In any event this is suppose to be about fun, put him out of your mind and move on. No offense but you seem fixated on your encounter with him, perhaps because he was your first but it doesn't seem healthy. As a couple seeking single males you have the world at your feet so to speak, go out and enjoy it.

Mrs Sav

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Any single guy (or SF or couple for that matter) goes to a meet knowing that there may not be any play. A simple "you seem like a great guy but I am just not feeling the connection" is sufficient. If he has any sense, he will be gracious and thank you for your time. If not, and if he presses for a reason or tries to change your mind, politely excuse yourself then go home and block him.

Threre are enough good, fun, sexy people to play with to waste your time worrying about those who don't "get it".

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I've always said the only reason I have for going to Vegas is to go to the Burlesque Hall of fame and meet up with a couple of the Grand Dames of Burlesque. I just changed my mind and added another reason...

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Hello Moivegas! I join along with LWC in welcoming you....the kisses & hugs sound delicious too! I am a married woman & play as a couple, but also play solo. I, too, have found I like to get to know the single men I play with. We learn each others' likes & interests, fantasies & fetishes! We even go out together in the vanilla world & flirt & tease shamelesy!!! ( A HUGE turn on for me!) These repeat performances lead to incredibly erotic experiences!!!

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