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TOPIC: A little bit of advice for an inexperienced woman

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User Details are only visible to members.	Phoenixx, I would suggest fulfilling your assignment in a private or semi-private area since you are nervous about touching another man. Would you consider finding a likely candidate - a man attending the party who you are attracted to (not your husband) - pulling him aside and telling him in a low voice what you would like to do? Simply imagine getting close enough to embrace one of his arms or his side with your beautiful breasts, leaning in towards his ear and asking in an intimate voice if you could just touch his cock. You don't have to explain your motives if you don't want to - in fact, explaining might make you feel even more awkward. As Sexus said, there are likely very few hetero men who would pass up the opportunity.
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (7067 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	, "They showed us a great time" and "Certainly know how to have fun" coming from wild couples is code for, well you know... Code word? I'd say we have "vanilla" friends who would use the same terminology . I saw nothing "sexual" in their certs. I do find it amusing that if you have a cert people assume you've played on ANY level. A cert isn't a blue ribbon you've engaged in sex, it is a ribbon that identifies you as someone who is REAL. No less no more. To the OP: talk things over, do what feels right at the time, talk about it after and REPEAT after making an adjustments that suit your desires, fantasies and limits. Swinging is a learning and growth process. You first dozen encounters should be used as teaching instruments to help you learn what your comfort level is , what your true "goal" in the lifestyle is and what makes you and your partner feel fulfilled but not threatened, jealous or uncomfortable. Open honest discussions should be the norm after every "event" . What you liked, what you didn't like, what you'd like more or and what you need less of shared honestly by both partners without judgement nor conflict. Mrs Sav Mrs
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4443 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lol. I agree with another post previously here.. Its just a dick..
Spring TX			Username hidden (1865 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	PHoenixx, you're overthinking the whole thing. If you walked up to most of our male friends who swing and said something like, "I just want to touch for a bit," none of our friends would have a problem with that, and would respect your boundaries and comfort level. You'll be fine. Have fun. Relax. Go with no other expectation other than to enjoy yourself with your husband. Gina
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User Details are only visible to members.	Rdy - just you wait...you'll see! LOL :-)
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Phoenixxx - You pleasure is what your husband is (or shoudl be) after. He wants you to experience the feelings and he gets to watch and participate in what could be considered personal porn. Don't do what you don't feel comfortable doing, but by all means, feel free to explore, especially if that's what the goal is. Once you do, you will begin to understand and enjoy. Nothing wrong with enjoying yourself. You love your husband, the SM is just a toy (as was said before, very well I might add). I enjoy being that toy, it gives me great pleasure to be the one helping others enjoy themselves.
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It's just a dick. They're all the same.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	don't worry the woman is in charge if you don't like something just say so, sure the other one involed will be more willing to make your fanasty come true
Dalhart TX			Username hidden (27 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The Certs are written by people who may or may not have a different level/take on what a good time is. Yes this is a swinging site however some people never get past friends and can still manage to have a great time. If you go to a club or house party it's possible to have fun without sex. I don't think we can read that much into Certs unless you know the couple that submitted the cert.
Cheektowaga NY			Username hidden (24 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Pheonix....."It is more of a nervousness due to never having done it before with anyone." That makes sense. So what if the event is not "perfect"? You your husbands expectations of what "doing it right" might be are sure to vary. He may want to see you do A, B, & C. You may end up doing X, Y, Z. As a husband I can tell you that as long as you TRY, he's got no reason to be dissatisfied. As for what the other guy thinks of you.......He's getting willing tail, guys are really easy to please. And if the other guy turns out to be a jerk, who cares what he thinks? Relax. My wife & I have only done a couple of these ourselves, she was VERY nervous. The first time did not go great, no higher than a C. But we talked things over, and the next time was definately a B to B+. We both had a lot of fun. So don't sweat it.
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