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TOPIC: A little bit of advice for an inexperienced woman

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User Details are only visible to members.	"my sweet wife is a little concerned about the sun and your penis. She was wondering if you might allow her to rub a little sunblock on it." Oh, god that is hilarious.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Cocain
Houston TX			Username hidden (120 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Please report back to all of us how it goes, and good luck with your adventure!
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (6971 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I do appreciate all the helpful feedback. We have discussed my homework and we will be going to a private room since I am nervous and I would rather be nervous with the 3-4 of us than nervous in front of a couple hundred that are expected at the party. We do have someone in mind and have spoken with him and his wife already about trying a mfm because they have enjoyed the mfm before. I know all I have to do is ask them to go in a room with me and explain why and they are game. They are a super laid back couple that we have a friendship with. They have always respected our boundaries even though they are a more advanced couple and been in the lifestyle for a while. I do have a lunch date set up to talk to someone who has participated in mfm a lot and then will be heading to a party to begin my homework Saturday night.
New Albany IN			Username hidden (261 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I would suggest that you ask an agreeable male if you can watch him masturbate in front of you and your husband. In my experience anyway, watching a man become aroused and handle his own cock - makes me want to touch it too.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2745 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	a few years ago there was a new to swinging couple at the club. I had taken hubby out of his pants for a little BJ. She asked if she could touch him, we both told her it was ok. She touched for a bit then asked if she could suck on him, again we both said yes so she did for just a bit then backed away. He and I actually went back to dancing and stuff for a bit before going back to the play area. He wasn't mislead, she got to touch a play a bit without fearing he was going to expect more. PG
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User Details are only visible to members.	I'd think if you suggested moving into a private area that would encourage the idea that it was more than a simple feel the wife wanted. If she just puts a hand inside his pants, and you're not in a place where more can easily happen, that would seem to be the less provocative route. I suppose a further defensive posture would be if she is wearing pants. Then you have 2 pair of pants between any full-on sex.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I'm going to kind of agree with Scandle and kind of agree with Nicatenight. In the early days we had the best luck. I just simply stated to a gentleman, "my sweet wife is a little concerned about the sun and your penis. She was wondering if you might allow her to rub a little sunblock on it. Would you mind?" I have heard my wife say, "you have a wonderful cock can I just touch it for a minute.". My greatest encouragement is to keep it simple, without detail. Curt n Jane
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User Details are only visible to members.	Ah, clearer thoughts prevail. I can see where my approach might do more harm than good. I may have gotten carried away with the memory of what I've done before with men, but truth be told we DID take it further after all that. Nic's right. Full disclosure ahead of time is best.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I rarely disagree with Scandle but if a female whispered in my ear she wanted to play with my cock, I would think there would be more to come and might think it an invitation to also touch her. I am not saying I would have the right to expect sex but that would seem to be where that is leading. If you are going to a club, either contact a guy ahead of time or have either you or your husband apporach a guy and ask him if he wuold be interested in going into a private room where you would like to touch him, but only that. No oral, no penetrtion. Make sure it is completely clear to him otherwise he may think you are just a tease. If you touch him, get him aroused and then say, "Thanks. Gotta go now", he may not be happy.
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