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TOPIC: A little bit of advice for an inexperienced woman
Created by: Phoenixxx4
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This is Mrs.Phoenixxx here. We have been discussing a MFM 3some. Ultimately it is going to happen because we both think it is going to be a great time. The issue is there is a little anxiety for me about being with another man other than my husband. Everyone in the lifestyle says there is a difference between sex and love but for me that is not the case. I was a virgin when I met my husband and have never touched another man's penis. I have been given homework from my husband to touch other penises which I will be doing this weekend at a club. Are there any tips to help with the little bit of anxiety?

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Thanks everyone for your kind words, advice & thoughts.

Same as regular life; Lifestyle continues to evolve.

-Mr Phoenix

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see we told ya

Dalhart TX
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good for you Mrs Phoenixxx! I'm happy for you that things went well, you and your husband really are a very sweet couple.

PG

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Same thoughts here, Scandle.

So, did you do the minimum homework assignment, or do more for extra credit?

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Phoenixxx: "Everything was all in my head and I am glad I had the opportunity to play with the couple we played with and give him a surprise since his wife and I did not tell him our plan."

It sounds like you developed plans way beyond what you shared with us here, making your posts a little confusing, but I'm glad it worked out so well. I thought originally it was a plan you and your husband were working on.

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It was a mutual decision.We were going to Vegas and decided to go to a swing club in instead of a strip club because of the nudity ordinances. We figured worse case scenario we would have some live porn to get us going and could fuck there at the club if we chose to instead of having to get a cab back to the hotel. While searching this site for info on what to expect at the club we found a friend of ours from our vanilla life on this site and talked to them. We started going to parties to hang out with them even though we had no interest in swapping. Everyone was okay with us being there to watch others have sex and us having sex with each other in the same room/same bed. I was in a situation 6-7 weeks ago where a really hot guy asked us to go to his hotel room with him so he could fuck me and I didn't immediately answer no. That got the conversation started on expanding our play. I really had no interest in it before then. I enjoyed being with my husband in the same room with other couples and being very limited with what play we did with other couples.

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Phoenixxx4,

"Everyone in the lifestyle says there is a difference between sex and love but for me that is not the case. I was a virgin when I met my husband and have never touched another man's penis. I have been given homework from my husband to touch other penises which I will be doing this weekend at a club"

Who's idea was it to swing?

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Well I did my homework last night and things went great! We had a great time with the other couple and everyone left sated. It really was a hell of a lot easier than I thought. Everything was all in my head and I am glad I had the opportunity to play with the couple we played with and give him a surprise since his wife and I did not tell him our plan.

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well if I put sunscreen on it, I for sure wouldn't be fucking it anytime soon...

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I'm glad it tickles you.

A long time ago we were new. Those were exciting days.

Curt n Jane

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TOPIC: A little bit of advice for an inexperienced woman