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I have become very good friends with 2-3 couples and have never felt any jealously, envy et.al. and bad vibes with them in regards to friendship and sex. With one couple I will travel halfway and meet the wife by herself on occasion. We always make a video for her to show her husband once she gets back home. I think you just have to put sex in its place within your friendship.

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Recreational sex requires that all parties be able to maintain a middle ground between (i) complete relational disattachment, and (ii) emotional dependence. Given that this couple is close friends with the 3rd and are relatively new, there is indeed a risk of developing too much of an emotional dependence. It is the responsibility of the 3rd (presumably a single male) to take the lead and be sensitive to the dynamics.

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I did that once, the 3 of us got along great until she started getting feelings for me. Caused all kinds of problems, but the sex was great.

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We are ready for our first MFM experience but she thinks she will be more comfortable with a friend (and there is friend of mine she finds attractive). This guy also hinted that he would be into it. What we read here suggests that it might not be a good idea. Any suggestions?

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