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TOPIC: 2 Men w- my wife
Created by: NicoleSean
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SO, my wife and I were talking about fantasies the other night and she mentioned that she wanted to have 3 men at once. Myself and two others. She wantes to be the total center of attention. A. How do I find two men. B. How do I make sure that she is respected and enjoys it and isn't "degraded." A threesome with a single guy is doable. I'm just afraid of finding two men who think it's a free for all and don't listen to what she wants. PS- Looking in SD

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with us ... I usually am point person to chat with and if I get along with them and they know not to act like cavemen lol I can set up a meet with my wife in a neutral environment ... meet them all singly and than have everyone meet weed out the trouble makers ... or ones that your wife doesn't seem attracted to... its time consuming but worth it

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Z Z Krewe your suggestion is excellent.

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We have done this before and one of the other guys was someone we had already played with. Communication before is the key to a good time.

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As with anything do your due deligence. Talk and meet socially to ensure you are OK with the individual. If that is the right male, he will understand your situation and not be pushy. DO this until you are able to find the right amount of males you desire to fulfill your fantasy. If you let them know upfront that you will contact them when ready but they are put off by that, then let them go and keep looking.

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Or read a short story and act out the parts you like best

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That would be difficult to stand around and not join in.

Not nearly as much fun.

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Might I suggest that you find 3 guys - none of whom are you - and you stay clothed and act as the director/photographer/policeman (if needed)?

That way you can make sure she's getting what she wants without the complications of you being naked too.

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For Sean of 'NicoleSean'

Since it seems you are asking for insight, I suggest that you let her know you approve of her fantasy, and have her write a script for what she would like and choose guys to read it before accepting her offer.

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Probably best to approach two (or more) men she has already enjoyed! Once the situation evolves past MFM, it would be a BIG plus to have some familiarity, and avoid the chances of disrespect.

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oh my, bigbills tread is very alive

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