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We couldn't agree more! We don't do drugs, drink only on occasion and not heavily, and don't jump into the sack when the door opens. We thought this was about making friends with benefits. So I guess we have been lucky, because so far it has been for us. We say, if you don't click, then move on....don't sweat those no-shows and rude people. Chalk it up to life experience and seek out the real people.

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Hi. I have been playing for about two years, have developed a wide array of great swing friends, and have an incredible sex life. I have learned that 60% or more of the people who post profiles on these swinger sites (whether they are couples, single men, or single females), have no intention of playing with anyone. They just want to chat and send emails. So, what you need to do is assume that at least 60% of the people that you meet here are not for real, be polite to them, and keep looking for the other 40% who will develop into swing friends.

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Hi, We've been a member here for about 8 months now. So far we've met folks twice from here once a single male and once another couple. We are for real but are not able to do this a lot. We work jobs with long hours, have kids who are active in sports, and just the normal every day chores that have to be done. This is just one small part of our lives, but we do enjoy it. We have responded to people sometimes and then it just didn't work out. Sometimes we may send a not interested reply to people we find attractive just because we know we aren't going to be free for awhile. This type thing should be done for the enjoyment of all without pressure when it works it's great when it dosen't it just dosen't. Hope the folks we've been in contact with understand.

Lexington TN
 
 
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We have run into the same thing in southeast Tennessee. We have also run across couple profiles that turn out to be single males. Also too large a number of people expect to meet, say hi, and jump into bed. Makes me wonder if they know how to rad, because our profile says we are definately not into that kind of action. Best lovers are also friends and you can't really a friend in 5 minutes. I also love the emails from single guys who send a message saying "great ass, want to get together tonight and f___." Our reply is always the same. Read our profile and get a life. So, no,you are not alone in this situation.

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I think we have all run into the same problems. I really get upset at single males posing as couples as it sometimes causes couples to be upset at all single males. Another problem I have encountered is having a couple contact me and their profile list the male as straight as does mine. But, after chatting or exchanging a minimum of emails They inform me that I must agree to participate in sex with both the male and female before they will meet me. I always turn those down. It's all a numbers game and timing. I have recently decided that I will not agree to meet a couple until I speak to a female on the phone. Play careful play safe. It's a big world out there. Curiousagain

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As I single male, I feel I must also reply. I realize we are a dime a dozen. I like to think that I am as sincere as anyone on here. I am appauled at the number of people who are too rude to respond, even to say no thanks. There is a way to block Emails from singles, just use it if you are not interested in getting mail. For every 10 letters I send, I get responsces from, at most, 2 people. The certified users is a great idea. I'd love to actually meet someone to get certified by...lol

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Ok yall here is a question for you.......WHY is it a nice couple who is approx. 1 hour from the NC.......KY.....TN.....West VA .... line is always told its too far.....but they want to chat and 90% of the time we are told we are such a cute couple and the lady is a doll baby.....if we were closer wed love to meat yall...........TO US A SMALL DRIVE IS NOT MUCH TO MEET FRIENDS YA KNOW........SINGLES.....either it be Ladies or Men...just seem to waist our time.....WHY? We get male from both and we have planned meetings with some and of course they didnt show up and had a lame excuse for it. If we arent your type just say so upfront like we do.....dont waste our time or yours knowin nothing will come of it. If you are ever in chat you can ask in there about us and you will probably get a response from a few......we are well liked and are great people to be around but for some reason that doesnt count for anything. Since we dont drink but on occasion and we dont do any drugs....no pot either it is a drug..... seems like alot want or expect this......us to drink heavily with them....or smoke one with them which WONT HAPPEN........or say hi, and lets fu**....which WILL NEVER HAPPEN!!!!! So now lets see how many think as WE do or is this just going to be taken the wrong way and make people mad WHICH ITS NOT MEANT TO DO.......JUST WONDER WHY THAT NICE ISNT WANTED ALOT ANYMORE?? Have a great day all and always have a smile :}

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