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TOPIC: How can you tell if a couple is real and not a single male pretending
Created by: fantasylife42
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We have been swamped with single males pretending they are a couple or a single female. We are going to start making a list of those who are fakes so others arent bothered. What is your alls imput on this and how can you keep from it? Thanks J&T
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Most single males look at swinging couples as an easy piece of horny female that has a husband that can't satisfy her needs. Therefore approaching them with expectations, and if not accepted then get totally disgusted and become mouthy. A great suggestion to single males wanting to be with a couple is to first find a female partner that is interested in doing mfm 3-sums and the other male would be a piece of cake to find...they're a dime a dozen attached to a 50 cent rebate. But then again, I know that 90% of the singles males want no obligations, just a free piece of ass.

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These guys really make single males look bad. I think a list is a good way to filter them out. Most couples say that they have found very few legitimate males on here.

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We agree with all on this subject. We do tend to get alot of BS to and bekieve it or not 1 thing we have done is use my bra size...stop laughing fantasy....lol. We can say somewhere in the conversation that im a 40DD if its a lady there like damn girl your poor back...............MEN is usually damn i want to see or let me lick them etc etc etc. and MEN dont know how big 40dd is they just look at the number and think huge women know that bigger breast are a pain to have the back trouble.......the gawking men and rude ones who can just focus on chest and cant look at ya face ya know what im saying here ladies. We are real folks down to earth and always say what is on our minds.............CJ ( lady) is a very vivous lady she does have a lil meat on the bones and those who cant see threw that and see her real beauty isnt worth our time. Markie is a man who thinks a lady is a " Precious Gift and should always be treated as such " and when others want to try and fool us they find out in a hurry there messin with the wrong people. A list with names of others who are bad apples would be great to have on here somewhere. Have a great day yall, CJ & Markie

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I guess the only way to tell is to have conversations with them. We picked up on one (we think) that sent pictures and stuff, but when he called, he used the words "I Like..." a lot. Most couples use "We Like..." and would at least add "She Likes..." with their "I Like....". There are fakes on here, but no one should be discouraged by it.

The thing I don't get, is if a single male contacts a couple who are not interested in singles (or at least single males), what do they expect to happen when we meet in person. Do they think that upon meeting them, we will suddenly change our minds about what we want... NOT HAPPENING.

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hey uriah, maybe she was dating them both? LOL Couples are the only ones having to weed through the fakes. And you think y'all get mad when you find out they are a fake? What about us single males? It riles us even more because these ****heads are making it look bad for "single males" when actually they may be a cheating spouse, or whatever. Curiousagain

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We agree with fantasylife42! It does make us mad when we find out that we are talking to a single male pretending to be a couple. We talk to single guys all the time and don't mind at all when they are up front and honest. Its when they try to deceive us that we get mad. At that point we usually turn them in to the Moderator and let them handle it from there. An example is we were talking with a "person" whose profile stated they were a couple.....when it got down to pic exchange his next email said...by the way "I'm a single male"..."is it still OK?"...we wrote back and simply said "No"...thiis guy went off and wrote one of the nastiest emails we ever read...we turned him in to the Moderator and he was made to change his profile to Single Male or be dropped from the group. We are a genuine couple..we look for friends here, both cpls and singles,and expect them to be genuine and honest as well. We think that is what we all want from this site. Sorry to ramble....just our 2 cents worth! TwoinTN

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Once I had two separate couples send me the same picture of "her". I sent the same response to each of them-"someone else is using your pic"-I never heard from either again. I can't figure out if they were either men pretending to be a couple or a couple who just haven't figured out the rules.

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Well thats just it, we don't have a problem when they state they are single male, just when it says they are a couple or female, but they are not. Pictures are real easy to come by so just because they have a pic, doesn't mean its really them.

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Interesting..don't have that problem as a couple..(the male here) I think using the male blocker on your profile listing would get most..but those that would get thru..just ask for a pix of both..if they don't have one to send well then you know...hard to fool a picture...

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Maybe I need to ask a different question.......lol How many of us does it make mad? I mean just when you think you are having a good conversation then you figure out hey where is (becky) and then he replies (cindy) is at work out of town. ummmmmmmm huh yeah right! Oh well maybe its just us.........lol

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