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TOPIC: Pictures On Profiles

Created by: JandC Original Starting post for this thread:
As a married couple of 19 years we chose this lifestyle to enjoy as a couple with like minded couples. When we view a profile of a couple and only see a face picture or see only the pictures of woman we ask our selves why. As a couple we view profiles to see the pictures of both the male and female and we never understood why a profile listed as a couple only have pictures of the lady. As a straight couple my husband would like to view the ladies pictures and I would like to view the pictures of the man. Can someone shed some light on this for us. Carla and Joe

Created by: JandC
Original Starting post for this thread:

As a married couple of 19 years we chose this lifestyle to enjoy as a couple with like minded couples. When we view a profile of a couple and only see a face picture or see only the pictures of woman we ask our selves why.

As a couple we view profiles to see the pictures of both the male and female and we never understood why a profile listed as a couple only have pictures of the lady.

As a straight couple my husband would like to view the ladies pictures and I would like to view the pictures of the man.

Can someone shed some light on this for us. Carla and Joe

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User Details are only visible to members.	LOL RK and Roy.... Facts are facts...... with out the women we would just be single guys .... ewwwwwwwwww
Myerstown PA			Username hidden (4988 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Now Roy...you know I love looking at that mug of yours.... love u back K
Muncy PA			Username hidden (2891 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We must agree with everyone on this question BUT a broader question would be......why post a profile with out any(even private) pics.We do not address many of the profiles without pics -and really don't enjoy only pics of T and A from the ones with locked photos ...We really do want to see who we are talking to-and hope to meet.....Nothing to be afraid of-we all are who we are.WE underdstand privacy, but sooner or later we should open up to whom we want to meet with. Just our opinion....Rick and Trace
Lewisburg PA			Username hidden (146 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hey RK.... if I didn't use the Virgin Island Butterfly for bait, we wouldn't get any responses...... Who'd wanna look at my Ole Ugly mug? (Love yas)
Lancaster PA			Username hidden (242 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Indoors, if we do phone calls before I meeting, I want to talk to the male, and he wants to talk to the female.
Scranton PA			Username hidden (469 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We don't like the couple's profiles without pics of both, either. We know those that don't have pics of the male half might feel they have a good reason, but as most have said, the female half wants to see the other male, too. We don't base our decision on meeting totally on looks but it certainly helps to see a pic and see if there is at least some attraction there.
Clifton Heights PA			Username hidden (242 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Knowing that there are a lot of fake profiles, we don't put much weight on anyones profile. If we happen to be interested or anyone interested in us, we are pretty quick in having a phone call between both wives followed by a casual meeting. After that, then we can spend time chatting on occasion when we see them online (at least we know they are real and we can see them in person as time permits for fun). As far as single men seeing our profile, that we have blocked. If we want a single male to join us, we initiate the invitation. All our pics are G-rated online and private. And yes pics of us both individually and together. We know who we are and that's what's important to us. Besides it's a free country and individuals have the right to be fakes if they want to be fakes (no matter how annoying). Everyone is different in how they weed out the fakes, but no one system is fool proof. T&A
Manheim PA			Username hidden (114 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Some people feel the woman is the bate...so they think they only need to post pics of her....or else they are hiding something... Just our opinion. R & K
Muncy PA			Username hidden (2891 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	WE have been there~~done that. WE ARE A LITTLE BORED WITH THE PROFILES WITH just A FEMALES PHOTO. a FEW OF THEM ENDED UP BEING FAKES. not EVEN A COUPLE, A MALE POSING AS A COUPLE. aND WEHN CONFRONTED ABOUT IT THEY USES NUMEROUS EXCUSES, ONE FOR INSTANCE, HIS WIFE LEFT HIM, OR MAYBE ANOTHER SHE ISNT INTO IT ANYMORE. I AM GOING TO BE WITH THE MALE NOT THE FEMALE SO I WANT TO SEE THE MALES PHOTOS <P>GET THE VIOLINS OUT NOW!!!!
Scranton PA			Username hidden (469 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm sure that there are pleasnty of reasons or excuses and everybody has one. I understand your frustration because when I look for couples to contact I would also like to see them together in at least one picture. As a single male in this lifestyle, I want to be able to see who I'm talking to and who I'm trying to stimulate a conversation with. That's where many single guys get into trouble, all they see is the female, they get all hot and bothered and this causes them to send unwanted emais that are crude and rude to the female. I don't know why couples do that, but alot of the profiles are that way. J&C your profile is excellant, you have pictures of both of you together and it gives an impression of a couple that is serious about this lifestyle. Enjoy and maybe we will run into eachother somewhere and we can say hello.
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9673 post)

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TOPIC: Pictures On Profiles