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TOPIC: why are some people so rude to single males
Created by: FunWow2
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i dont get some people. i am a laid back nice guy and yet there are some people on this site who treat us like we are dirt. What does a nice single guy have to do to meet ladies and couples without feeling like dirt.

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We fit the profile of what saratogaswingers said in that we are both very secure with each other and our relationship, and we do 'play' with singles now and then. When we go out we has the philosophy we're out to have fun and no expectations, that way we always have fun... and if we hit it off with a couple or single, play together or separate, even better =]

My beef is like everyone else's, it's not the majority of single guys, it's that small percentage that ruin it for everyone. I just love the emails to us that act like me (hubby) isn't even part of the couple, or the ones that come right out and say I can't get the job done and that's the only reason why we swing... this WASN'T even a follow up email or anything, some guy actually wrote that to us as his first email and then wondered why he didn't get anywhere.

To be fair, we have also run into our share of rude couples too, especially where we are moving from, so I guess the bottom line is don't be rude!

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Single guys can be a nice tonic for what ails your relationship, or it could be poison. If you're secure in your relationship, then letting inthe single guy or gal shouldn;t be an issue. Some singles are real nice, polite and respectful. Then there are the pushy types who think they're god's gift. they can be bad news in any situation.

Amsterdam NY
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Cnyswingers you are 100% right. And the e-mails from single guys still comming even we set up in Extra features "Hide me from Single Males" option.

Brooklyn NY
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For the record, that was meant as a joke. We wouldn't sleep with anyone for money. I have been offered before, but I politely turned the offers down. I'm not offended by it, just not my thing.

Washingtonville NY
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There is a one-liner come'on that will get a single guy into our bedroom....."Here's a million dollars!"

Besides that, show a bit of tact when emailing couples.

Washingtonville NY
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I have to concur with both CNY and Naked. Two things about single guys that really bothers and turns us off are 1) 99% don't read the profile 2) And the same guys email us even though our profile clearly states what we are looking for.

We do enjoy MFM 3somes occassionally, but we're very selective on the type of men we want to meet. She's only interested in single black men, yet every other day we get at least one email from other guys who think that they are special and that we will be impressed by thier cock shot. To quote CNY, "she has yet to see one that she just HAS to have" (with the exception of one or two porn stars that she has seen).

If you're asking why are people rude to single guys, its because the bulk of single male are rude, obnoxious, and arrogant.

Washingtonville NY
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We find that most men have the wrong approach; especially when couples clearly state that they are not seeking single males. It can be a bit irritating when single men totally disregard couples profiles.

Arverne NY
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I'm sorry to hear you're having such rough experiences, but just so you know, couples get treated rudely, too. Seems we'd find more acceptance and tolerance in a swinger community, but then I suppose swingers are people, too!

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i dont get some people. i am a laid back nice guy and yet there are some people on this site who treat us like we are dirt. What does a nice single guy have to do to meet ladies and couples without feeling like dirt.

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